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Like most Mondays, several couples fly in to do a 3 or 5-Day Intensive with me and my team. Many couples I see will inevitably tell me the tale of being in a sexless marriage for months, years, or decades. I smile and tell them not to worry. I have…
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Resources Featured Resource The Healing Church What Churches Get Wrong About Pornography And How To Fix It Millions struggle in secret while misunderstanding clouds porn’s impact on Christians and the Church. Be the beacon of hope that cuts through the fog and leads people through a grace-filled process to the foot of the…
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You could say we rushed into it, that we didn’t take enough time to really get to know each other, and that if we had, perhaps I would have found out about the porn problem before we stood before God and declared our love and devotion. We got engaged eleven…
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For a well-written and thoroughly researched paper on the effects of pornography, I wholeheartedly recommend you read, “Pornography’s Effects on Adults & Children,” by Dr. Victor B. Cline. Dr. Cline earned his Ph.D. at the University of California, Berkeley, and is a psychotherapist specializing in family/marital counseling and sexual addictions.…
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by Veronica Benton I am often asked, “When will I trust my husband again?” This is such a hard question to answer, especially for a woman who just found out her husband has been hiding a pornography addiction. Trying to find herself in the shock of the moment and not…
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In our frustrations with our sexual purity journey we’ve probably wondered: Why doesn’t God just take my sexual desire away? Why doesn’t He zap me and give me self-control? Why do I have to continue struggling? If God would take away my desire, wouldn’t it fix everything? Let’s consider why…
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Recently we received this comment from a reader: I am in my 20s and I found my dad viewing pornography on the computer. Honestly, it came as a shock to me and has been a difficult thing to work through. I have read some of the blog posts on Covenant…
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“Can someone please help me to stop watching porn because, because I’m a Christian, I’m afraid that I might go to hell for this.” If you’re a religious person and you struggle with porn, you may be wrestling with a terrifying thought: “Will I go to hell for watching this?”…
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Why Is Sexuality About More Than Behavior? Dr. Carol says that in the church, often the biggest difference from the world is in external behaviors. But we fail to understand that sex is about more than sex. Sexuality says something about who God is as a relationship being and who…
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My child stands shivering before my wife and I and says, “I didn’t tell you before, because I was too afraid, but I looked at pornography a month ago, sort of for a few days in a row.” What am I supposed to say? I had no warning at all.…