After I found out that my husband had been viewing pornography, I was devastated. As I processed my grief, one of my dearest friends posed this question to me: “What did you lose when your husband looked at porn?” This is an important question. Your answers will be unique to…
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Why I’ve Never Placed My Wife as Number One
I’ve never placed my wife as number one in our relationship. For the first 20 years of our marriage I had completely selfish reasons for not putting her first. For the last 13 years of our marriage she’s still not number one, but now for the right reason. Before you think I’ve lost…
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Are you wearing “text goggles”? Love in the time of texting
As a millennial, I understand the appeal of the text message. It’s easy, convenient, non-threatening, and can be ignored. I have texted guys to suggest a hang-out when I hadn’t heard from them in a while; I have received tweets, texts, and e-mails from men for last-minute “dates” that never…
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How to Help Your Daughter Fight for Purity
When I was a teen, the thought of telling my parents about my sexual struggles absolutely terrified me. I knew I needed help, but for some reason they were the last ones I wanted to be honest with. It took me several months of praying and wrestling in my heart…
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10 Ways to Pluck Out Your Eye to Avoid Porn
If you are a Christian man who struggles with porn, you’re likely familiar with Jesus’ command to “pluck out your right eye and cast it away” if it causes you to lust after women. But how are you supposed to do this, exactly? After all, you face more visual temptations,…
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Day 3: Don’t Forget Daughters
As parents, we don’t like to admit this, but whether our little girls like twirling around in sparkly dresses or creating epic buildings in Minecraft, they are vulnerable to porn. Lust isn’t a male issue; it’s a human issue, and women fall prey to it too. A few days ago,…
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Sexting Statistics: What do the surveys say?
“It’s a way to express your feelings. If a guy and a girl are in love, instead of saying it face to face, they can say it through technology.” (18-year-old guy from Brooklyn) Sending nude or otherwise provocative images of yourself online or through your cell phone is called “sexting.”…
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Covenant Eyes Is Getting a New Look
It is an amazing time to be in the Covenant Eyes family. Earlier this year, we redesigned our accountability service to identify and report pornography at the screen level. We also launched our very successful line of Colossal Man commercials, reaching millions of potential new users in a matter of…
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Porn Must Be an Ongoing Conversation with Your Kids
“I first saw pornography at age 12 when I got a smart phone. I knew it was against God but I still viewed it when I was alone and didn’t let my parents know. My parents never addressed pornography directly, which is why I didn’t know how to stop myself.…
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5 Ways Sex Gets Better After Giving Up Porn
Everyone wants to have better sex, right? No one explained to me before marriage how pornography use would affect my sex life. Everyone said it was bad, but no one really said why. As far as I could tell as a young man in my twenties, everyone else used pornography…
