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After the traumatic discovery of your partner’s sex addiction, you are likely to become consumed with your significant other. You suddenly feel very unsafe and feel like you don’t know this person with whom you have been sharing your life. You may become an excellent detective as you desperately seek…
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Shocked. Horrified. Disgusted. Sickened. That’s only a handful of the emotions that overtook me when I found out that my 14-year-old son was a captive audience to a two-and-a-half-hour public display of hardcore heterosexual and homosexual obscenity—and no one said a word. I dare not even repeat here the vile…
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For too long, the evangelical community has treated sexual fantasies and sexual struggles as something to condemn. Addressing sexual fantasies through the lens of abhorrent behavior intensifies shame and therefore deepens your involvement in the very behavior you wish to stop. There is another approach. It begins by listening to…
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Hi. My name is Lisa, and I have a porn problem. Ironically, I’m probably the last person you’d think would have one. I’m a woman. I’m active at church. I’m single and still “saving myself for marriage.” I even work at Covenant Eyes. And, to be honest, by the grace…
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Pornography is inherently selfish and hurtful—to your body, to your relationships, and even to the performers. If we want to truly rid our lives of pornography and its effects, then we need to flood our lives with porn’s polar opposite, and one of the grand unifying themes of the Bible:…
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Pope Francis passed away on April 21, 2025, which was also Easter Monday. As the Church and the world mourn his passing and remember his impact, we want to take this opportunity to recall some of his teachings about this issue of pornography. Responding with Compassion Pope Francis recognized the…
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Growing up, I was fortunate to have pastors who were not afraid to mention the word “porn” or address the issue of sexual integrity head-on. This led to a safe environment in which I was able to confess my sins of using pornography as a high school student to my…
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Ask any counselor, psychologist, or therapist, and they will all agree that accountability is essential to lasting freedom from pornography. But what is accountability? And why is it so important to recovery and healing? In the minds of many, accountability should harness the power of fear and shame to motivate change. Put another way, the…
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Lead your children into the light. Help! My child is looking at porn. We get it. Your child is looking at porn. You might be angry right now. There may be surges of guilt. You might just be confused that this could happen “to us.” Distressing as it may feel,…
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Walk in the light Porn is a human problem. We provide a human solution. We hear from people every day how porn hurts them, their faith, and the people they love most. They feel trapped in a cycle of shame that no one seems to understand. But there is hope.…
