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5 Warning Signs You’re Addicted to Porn
Many men who contact me for help in overcoming pornography use question…
Many men who contact me for help in overcoming pornography use question whether or not they really have an addiction to porn. Some simply don’t want to believe they could actually be addicted to the…
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Myth Busters: “I’ll stop looking at porn when I get married”
The TV show MythBusters is known for taking popular myths and showing…
The TV show MythBusters is known for taking popular myths and showing if they are true or not. More often than not, true to the show’s name, myths are “busted,” shown for the falsehoods they…
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How to Be a Porn Addict’s Best Friend
A friend of yours may be a porn addict, but if he’s…
A friend of yours may be a porn addict, but if he’s still struggling, he might not be a really close friend. Everything about being an addict screams isolation and shame. Fear can be a strong…
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6 Ways My Husband Helped Me Heal From Betrayal
Let’s say my husband is driving a car, and I’m in the…
Let’s say my husband is driving a car, and I’m in the passenger seat. He reaches for his phone to reply to a text message, and we get in a wreck. He’s okay, but my…
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3 Phases of Freedom
“Who wants a healthy snack?” It’s fun to see how people respond…
“Who wants a healthy snack?” It’s fun to see how people respond to this question. You often have people on one end of the spectrum who turn up their nose at the very thought of…
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3 Important Characteristics of True Accountability
Do you want to know the biggest reason why men and women…
Do you want to know the biggest reason why men and women stay stuck in porn and sex addiction? Forgoing true accountability. That’s right, the biggest reason why you ride the purity roller coaster is you…
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4 Myths About Our Kids and Porn
A mom recently contacted me because her 11-year-old son had been looking…
A mom recently contacted me because her 11-year-old son had been looking at porn. She didn’t know what to do and needed to talk to someone. Just the week before, Julie [name changed] was having a…
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19 Possible Motives Triggering Your Porn Consumption
Often triggers and motive are treated as two distinct things, and there…
Often triggers and motive are treated as two distinct things, and there are differences. But those differences are more akin to two sides of the same coin than apples and oranges. In this post we’ll…
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Why I Disagree with Pamela Anderson
There’s an intriguing phenomenon in Hollywood right now: celebrities speaking out against…
There’s an intriguing phenomenon in Hollywood right now: celebrities speaking out against pornography. Actor and comedian Russell Brand posted a video to his Facebook page in early 2015, citing science research and personal experiences as…
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A Summit to End Sexual Exploitation
The National Center on Sexual Exploitation (NCOSE) works tirelessly so we might realize,…
The National Center on Sexual Exploitation (NCOSE) works tirelessly so we might realize, “a world where the pornified vision of reality—with its utilitarian and insatiable consumption of human beings for selfish sexual pleasure, its raw, brutal,…