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3 Reasons the Devil Didn’t Make You Do It
“Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors.” –Rom. 8:37 “The…
“Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors.” –Rom. 8:37 “The Devil made me do it!” We’ve all heard it, but why do I do what I do? Isn’t that the question of all…
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Why Disney Relationships Are Just Like Porn
I’m the dad of 3- and 4-year-old daughters. I’m an expert on…
I’m the dad of 3- and 4-year-old daughters. I’m an expert on Disney princesses. My daughters have every word of the Frozen soundtrack memorized and have more Disney princess toys and articles of clothing than…
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What Lurks Around Every Online Corner
I was innocently looking through a harmless hashtag category on Instagram the…
I was innocently looking through a harmless hashtag category on Instagram the other day when some nude images suddenly assaulted me. Shocked by the pornographic images that suddenly appeared on my phone, I immediately clicked…
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Why We Will Be Using Covenant Eyes for Life
We were crunching numbers, trying to make room in the budget for…
We were crunching numbers, trying to make room in the budget for something I can’t quite recall, when I asked my husband if we still needed to pay for Covenant Eyes. We were years down…
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How to Approach Sex After Betrayal
Recently, Jake* contacted me via e-mail. He’d listened to almost every interview…
Recently, Jake* contacted me via e-mail. He’d listened to almost every interview we had done and agreed with almost everything we had said, except for this: Porn is not about sex, but about fantasy. After…
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Fighting Sexual Sin with Joy in the Lord
Joy may not be the first thought you think of when it…
Joy may not be the first thought you think of when it comes to sexual sin. In my experience with working with those addicted to pornography, they often experience a lot of guilt and shame,…
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3 Accountability Lessons to Learn from Frodo and Sam
Great literature, film, and art can inform our souls and educate us…
Great literature, film, and art can inform our souls and educate us in the school of virtue. The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien, voted “the greatest book of the century” by a 1997…
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What do all porn users have in common?
John is a 38-year-old man addicted to porn. His wife works third…
John is a 38-year-old man addicted to porn. His wife works third shift each night which gives him ample opportunity to dip his heart and mind in the snares of pornography. About six months ago, Lexi, a…
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A Stranger Is Watching Your Daughter
Just typing the title to this blog post made me cringe. I…
Just typing the title to this blog post made me cringe. I have a daughter. She’s my everything. My firstborn. I guard her ferociously. But, technology has opened up new access points to our families.…
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No More: How Hitting Rock Bottom Helped Me Kick My Masturbation Habit
“No more _____.” I wrote this across the top of the January…
“No more _____.” I wrote this across the top of the January page of the following year’s calendar on New Year’s Eve approximately 20 years ago. I didn’t fill in the blank, but I knew…