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Changing How We See Beauty
King David was on his roof and saw a woman bathing. 2…
King David was on his roof and saw a woman bathing. 2 Samuel 11 tells us that David found her “beautiful to behold,” seeing her according to the flesh. Most of us know how the…
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3 Ways Your Porn Use Degrades Your Wife
When you value porn more than your wife, it destroys your marriage!…
When you value porn more than your wife, it destroys your marriage! She wants you to stop viewing it, yet you continue. She believes you don’t value her enough to quit. Sometimes she asks herself,…
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7 Marks of Enduring Accountability Relationships
Too often we relegate accountability to the “wouldn’t it be nice” status.…
Too often we relegate accountability to the “wouldn’t it be nice” status. It goes on the same list as having a budget and exercising–things we know we should be doing, but never quite find time…
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Accountability Saved My Life
For anyone caught in a daily cycle of destructive behavior, it can…
For anyone caught in a daily cycle of destructive behavior, it can be a struggle to hang on to the hope that it’s possible to beat your addiction. The story below, although it centers around an…
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Why Marrying a Supermodel Won’t Satisfy
I remember the way I thought about marriage back when I was…
I remember the way I thought about marriage back when I was a single chap. I had determined that if I was ever going to get married (i.e. tied down to just one woman for…
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What’s significant about 40 days?
Everything that’s worth having requires immense effort. I’ve found this to be…
Everything that’s worth having requires immense effort. I’ve found this to be abundantly true in two specific areas of my life right now–marriage and parenthood. If I want to have a healthy marriage, it requires…
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Dear Porn Addict, This Is Your Wife
Husbands addicted to porn are often totally ignorant to the relational carnage…
Husbands addicted to porn are often totally ignorant to the relational carnage it unleashes on their wife and loved ones once their addiction is exposed. Being caught as a porn addict is like dropping a…
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Porn Is a Perfect Teacher (Teaching a Deadly Lie)
Sex is God’s idea. Sex is not only a good thing, but…
Sex is God’s idea. Sex is not only a good thing, but an act deliberately willed by God in order to help unify man and woman. Our brain’s wiring reinforces this bonding by unleashing a…
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For Parents Only: Sex Addiction Therapist Reveals Her Biggest Shock
Kindergarten. That’s where Cheryl’s son was first exposed to pornography. How could…
Kindergarten. That’s where Cheryl’s son was first exposed to pornography. How could this happen? Cheryl [not her real name] had taken every precaution to prevent this. As a certified sex addiction therapist, she had a…
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From Your Future Wife: Please, please don’t do this one thing…
Reflecting back on our marriage I can clearly see the “one thing”…
Reflecting back on our marriage I can clearly see the “one thing” I had done that lead to a lot of pain, broken trust, and wounded love. This “one thing” did enormous harm to our…