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Why is my husband so angry? It all comes down to shame.
As I look back on almost seven years of treating wives of…
As I look back on almost seven years of treating wives of sex addicts I can only think of one who said her husband didn’t have serious issues with anger. Women share stories of their…
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A Christmas Letter to Parents
‘Tis the Season for Giving Gadgets Parents, if your young son or…
‘Tis the Season for Giving Gadgets Parents, if your young son or daughter wrote you a letter, would it look similar to the letter above? Christmas brings many joys, but some of these joys can also…
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Has your porn addiction made you absent?
Louise worried her husband was way too busy and buried in work.…
Louise worried her husband was way too busy and buried in work. She had more than noticed that he stayed in his home office most of the evening and late into the night, even after…
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Consumerism and the Culture of Porn
When visiting the public museum recently, my family and I made our…
When visiting the public museum recently, my family and I made our way to the upper floor that featured artifacts from what would be considered primitive cultures. People in these parts of the world do…
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It’s Not About Restraint, But Transformation
New song recommendations are the best. The perfect beat or tune can…
New song recommendations are the best. The perfect beat or tune can really make your day. Some lyrics can make you feel like you’ve made strides in your spiritual life ten seconds into the song.…
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3 Powerful Porn Triggers (And How to Overcome Them)
Updated July 2021. I call these three emotional states the “Devil’s Triangle…
Updated July 2021. I call these three emotional states the “Devil’s Triangle of Triggers.” We can’t handle them on our own, and they’ll often send you looking for porn before you know what hit you. Trigger…
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Changing How We See Beauty
King David was on his roof and saw a woman bathing. 2…
King David was on his roof and saw a woman bathing. 2 Samuel 11 tells us that David found her “beautiful to behold,” seeing her according to the flesh. Most of us know how the…
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3 Ways Your Porn Use Degrades Your Wife
When you value porn more than your wife, it destroys your marriage!…
When you value porn more than your wife, it destroys your marriage! She wants you to stop viewing it, yet you continue. She believes you don’t value her enough to quit. Sometimes she asks herself,…
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7 Marks of Enduring Accountability Relationships
Too often we relegate accountability to the “wouldn’t it be nice” status.…
Too often we relegate accountability to the “wouldn’t it be nice” status. It goes on the same list as having a budget and exercising–things we know we should be doing, but never quite find time…
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Accountability Saved My Life
For anyone caught in a daily cycle of destructive behavior, it can…
For anyone caught in a daily cycle of destructive behavior, it can be a struggle to hang on to the hope that it’s possible to beat your addiction. The story below, although it centers around an…