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The Best Way to Build Your Accountability Team
There’s no question that one of the biggest challenges facing us guys…
There’s no question that one of the biggest challenges facing us guys fighting to overcome habitual sexual sin is finding good accountability partners. This is true whether you’re just starting out, or if you’re many…
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True Story: His Porn. Her Pain. Healed.
During this interview, we had the privilege of hearing from Jay and…
During this interview, we had the privilege of hearing from Jay and Lori Pyatt as they shared their story of Jay’s porn use, the pain Lori experienced as a result, and the amazing transformation that…
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The Two Most Important Questions to Ask If You Have a Setback
Recently, a married man from a support group I lead had two…
Recently, a married man from a support group I lead had two setbacks (or relapses) with porn on the same day. But rather than quitting, he sheepishly retorted, “It was just what the doctor ordered!”…
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6 Lessons on Relationships that Animated Movies Teach Your Kids
“The earliest messages are often the longest-lasting messages. Charles Spurgeon said that…
“The earliest messages are often the longest-lasting messages. Charles Spurgeon said that the voices of childhood echo throughout life so that ‘The first learned is generally the last forgotten.’ This can be a tremendous blessing…
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The Nuclear Response to the Porn Battle
For the longest time the community and church alike have been taking…
For the longest time the community and church alike have been taking it on the chin from the porn industry. We have lost marriages, families, businesses, and ministries to pornography. Our approach has been to…
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An Open Letter to the Wives of Porn Addicts
On behalf of myself and the other husbands addicted to porn, I am…
On behalf of myself and the other husbands addicted to porn, I am sorry. We have given your place to another and it is wrong. You knew some men struggle with this; you just didn’t think…
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Why live with it?
What discomfort or debilitation are we living with today that we don’t…
What discomfort or debilitation are we living with today that we don’t need to? What unpleasant aspect of our life do we accept as normal when it isn’t? It’s so easy to assume we already know…
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6 Ways to Raise a Sex Addict
In my seven years of counseling sex addicts and their wives, I’ve…
In my seven years of counseling sex addicts and their wives, I’ve seen some common themes amongst the sex addicts’ families of origin. I’d like to share them with you today. Here are six ways…
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2017’s Dirty Dozen List Revealed
This week, our good friends at the National Center of Sexual Exploitation…
This week, our good friends at the National Center of Sexual Exploitation (NCOSE) announced the organizations and corporations on its 2017 Dirty Dozen List. What is the goal of the Dirty Dozen List? This list…
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How to Find an Accountability Partner Who Can Really Help You
After a lifetime of habitual sexual sin, today I’m still living in…
After a lifetime of habitual sexual sin, today I’m still living in freedom from my sexual addiction and able to mentor others who struggle so they too can experience the freedom that I now enjoy.…