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Why Can’t I Stop Watching Porn? 3 Reasons It’s Hard to Quit
I can’t stop watching porn. No really, I want to. I have made…
I can’t stop watching porn. No really, I want to. I have made promises and tried fresh starts in the New Year. I have even gone forward in church, gotten down on my knees, and begged…
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How Any Dad Can Hurt His Kids Without Even Knowing
It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.…
It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men. –Frederick Douglass Countless lives testify to this reality. Every child grows up in an environment that either fosters health and wholeness or takes…
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The Best Way to Block Porn (It Isn’t What You Think)
Probably one of the most obvious and simple ways to stop looking…
Probably one of the most obvious and simple ways to stop looking at porn is to employ some kind of filter to remove the junk. There are many Internet filters on the market today. And,…
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How to Explain Lust to Your Children
How do we teach our children to avoid pornography and damaging sexual…
How do we teach our children to avoid pornography and damaging sexual situations, while teaching that sex is good and was created by God? I have found it helps to remember that children’s first encounter…
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What You Need to Hear if Your Husband Betrayed You
As a counselor who specializes in sexual issues, I’ve heard from many…
As a counselor who specializes in sexual issues, I’ve heard from many wives with spouses who struggle with pornography. Their stories of courage fill my heart with gratitude for their resolve and strength. Their stories…
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Trigger Alert! What’s Yours?
For those who want to end their use of pornography, the first…
For those who want to end their use of pornography, the first step is admitting the problem. After this, you need to identify your triggers. A trigger is a person, place, thing, emotion, or experience that…
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Porn: A Weak Link On Your Character Chain
You’ve heard the saying “a chain is only as strong as its…
You’ve heard the saying “a chain is only as strong as its weakest link.” Depending on the strength of the links, the force needed to break it could be large or small. If every link…
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How to Be the Best Ally Ever
Being an ally, or accountability partner, in someone’s journey to overcome porn…
Being an ally, or accountability partner, in someone’s journey to overcome porn is a privilege and a responsibility. Most people are honored when asked to be an ally. It shows that the addicted person trusts…
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We’re in the Fight Against Pornography Together
Those in combat don’t ask their fellow service members what their worldviews…
Those in combat don’t ask their fellow service members what their worldviews are while engaging in battle. They have a single focus: defeating the enemy. Rather than get caught up in outlying issues, the successful…
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Why is my husband so angry? It all comes down to shame. (Part 2)
Read Part 1 of “Why is my husband so angry? It all…
Read Part 1 of “Why is my husband so angry? It all comes down to shame.” As a female sex addiction therapist I feel I am at a significant disadvantage. Sex addicts often started out…