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Sexual Sanity for Women (Book Review)
When I was asked to review Sexual Sanity for Women, I was…
When I was asked to review Sexual Sanity for Women, I was far less than excited. As a woman who battled pornography addiction, I know the frustration of trying to find resources to help me.…
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To Wear or Not to Wear: The Bikini Debate
Modesty is a controversial topic no matter how you slice it. It…
Modesty is a controversial topic no matter how you slice it. It is controversial because it is both personal and vague: personal because our wardrobe reflects, in a sense, our heart, and vague because it…
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Iron Sharpens Iron: One Catholic Man’s Experience of Accountability
“Is my chastity worth $9.99 a month?” I asked myself this question…
“Is my chastity worth $9.99 a month?” I asked myself this question several years ago. Sitting in a dorm room and staring at my computer screen, it was in this moment of grace that I…
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The Path to True Intimacy and Better Sex
Every husband who wants to improve his sex life should learn to…
Every husband who wants to improve his sex life should learn to spell. Typically, guys spell intimacy S-E-X, said Dr. Dan Erickson. It’s not entirely our fault. Our sexualized culture has encouraged the misspelling, and…
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33 Reasons to Abstain from Porn
Knowing that porn is wrong is not the struggle for me. Staying…
Knowing that porn is wrong is not the struggle for me. Staying motivated to abstain from it…now there’s the real struggle! To give myself a fresh shot of motivation, every single morning I remind myself…
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How do I hold someone accountable for their porn use?
Neuroscientist William Struthers talks about how you can be a good friend…
Neuroscientist William Struthers talks about how you can be a good friend to someone who is harming themselves with repeated use of pornography. How do you hold someone accountable for their use of pornography? Struthers…
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4 Ways Porn Kills Great Sex in Marriage
Porn makes promises it can’t keep, especially when it comes to hot…
Porn makes promises it can’t keep, especially when it comes to hot sex in marriage. Porn won’t spice up your sex life, and it won’t make you a better lover. Science and psychology show that…
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Lust After Death: Advice to a Widower Who Fantasizes About His Wife
A week or so ago I received an e-mail from a man…
A week or so ago I received an e-mail from a man whose wife passed away recently. They had been married for nearly 40 years. In his loneliness, he says, he fantasizes about times of intimacy with…
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7 Tips for Wives of Sex Addicts: Looking for a Good Therapist
It can be harder than you think to find a counselor who…
It can be harder than you think to find a counselor who really gets the trauma you have suffered as a partner of a porn or sexual addict. Learn what to look for, what questions…
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Why spying on your husband is a bad idea (and what to do instead)
“I used to dream that I would meet a prince But God…
“I used to dream that I would meet a prince But God Almighty, have you seen what’s happened since?” -Madame Thenardier, Les Miserables One of the things I dislike about most Disney princesses is that they…