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“My Boyfriend Watches Porn!” 7 Realities to Consider
If you’ve discovered your boyfriend watches porn, you’re not alone. I got…
If you’ve discovered your boyfriend watches porn, you’re not alone. I got a letter from a young woman asking about how to deal with her boyfriend’s porn habit while dating. She gave me permission to…
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Beyond the Superficial: 7 Principles from Proverbs About Friendship
It is often a problem, especially among men, that we don’t intentionally…
It is often a problem, especially among men, that we don’t intentionally seek out good friendships. Often we don’t seek out wise counsel unless we are seeking “expert” advice. It is easier to stay on…
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5 Ways to Serve the Sexually Broken
When someone mentions missions, there are usually a few thoughts that come…
When someone mentions missions, there are usually a few thoughts that come to mind: Perhaps that is a shallow misrepresentation of how some people view missions. For many, though, it is a sad reality. Missions…
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Porn Users Have Smaller Brains
According to a new German study published in the Journal of the…
According to a new German study published in the Journal of the American Medical Association Psychiatry, there is a significant correlation between higher consumption of porn and a lower amount of grey matter in your…
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Marriage After Porn: Milestones of Healing
There was a day in my marriage now known as The Confession—that moment…
There was a day in my marriage now known as The Confession—that moment when the reality of my pornography addiction came to light. For about six months, one day to the next there was plenty of fluctuation…
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Overcoming Porn: 4 Tips for Effective Accountability
Your chances of overcoming your struggle with pornography without a good accountability…
Your chances of overcoming your struggle with pornography without a good accountability plan will look a lot like Custer’s Last Stand in the end. It will be deadly and messy, with casualties everywhere. Yes, a…
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4 Ways to Address Sexy Images on Facebook
If you’re anything like me or 48% of other Facebook users, one…
If you’re anything like me or 48% of other Facebook users, one of the first things you do when you wake up is check your news feed. Or maybe you’re one of the 28% who…
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5 Things You Should Not Assume About Your Husband’s Porn Addiction
1. Don’t assume he’s got it under control. If he had it…
1. Don’t assume he’s got it under control. If he had it under control, he wouldn’t be breaking your heart with his confessions right now. One of the worst things you can do for your…
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Boundaries for Couples Facing Porn Addiction
Henry Cloud and John Townsend have written a marvelous book called Boundaries…
Henry Cloud and John Townsend have written a marvelous book called Boundaries in Marriage. They define a boundary simply as “a property line” between one person and another. They make this statement: “When two people…
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Life After Porn: 5 Things My Husband Did to Rebuild Trust
Standing in a dark Las Vegas hotel room with my ear cupped…
Standing in a dark Las Vegas hotel room with my ear cupped to the bathroom door, I heard a voice that I had never heard before. It was the voice of a man “chatting with”…