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Building Trust Despite His Relapses: Hope for Wives of Porn Addicts
This is a story I hear a lot from women: “My husband…
This is a story I hear a lot from women: “My husband just can’t seem to kick the habit. We’ve been in this fight for years now. Whenever he gets caught, he seems to feel…
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An Open Letter to Pornography
Dear Pornography, I met you at a young age. As memory serves,…
Dear Pornography, I met you at a young age. As memory serves, I was around the age of seven the first time I was shown a pornographic magazine. Little did I know that it would…
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Understanding the 5 Mentalities of a Porn “Addict”
While many of my books and booklets have a focus upon substance…
While many of my books and booklets have a focus upon substance abuse issues, a struggle with any “addictive” pleasure of sin is a war within one’s heart desires. Anything pleasurable on this earth can…
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Is Porn Addiction Real or Myth? The Debate Continues
What if someone told you—despite what popular media says—that “sex addiction” or…
What if someone told you—despite what popular media says—that “sex addiction” or “porn addiction” aren’t real? What if someone told you the whole thing is an inaccurate label that isn’t helping but is rather harming…
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Little Boys in Men’s Bodies: What masculinity is and is not
Howdy Partner! Tell me what guy doesn’t occasionally belt this song in…
Howdy Partner! Tell me what guy doesn’t occasionally belt this song in an off-pitched squeal in the shower, in his car, or in his own head at the grocery store. Here is a classic example…
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Destroying Porn Addiction Starts with Destroying Shame
Is destroying porn addiction possible? For many men and women, this habit…
Is destroying porn addiction possible? For many men and women, this habit runs so deep, our personal vows to stop seem worthless to us anymore. The Bible sees a vital link between sexual sin and social…
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10 Gospel-Centered Accountability Principles (or, How a Puritan Might Run an Accountability Group)
How do we slay the power of sin in us? What means…
How do we slay the power of sin in us? What means has God given us to destroy sinful lusts? Too often we look for the answer to that question on a vertical plane only:…
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Resources for Wives of Porn Addicts
If your husband looks at porn, you know firsthand the pain, frustration,…
If your husband looks at porn, you know firsthand the pain, frustration, and confusion that this can inflict. You are not alone. Ever since our blog was launched in 2008, we’ve written hundreds of articles…
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My Husband Was a Porn Addict: How He Earned Back My Trust
Ten years ago, we were missionaries in the Solomon Islands, arriving at…
Ten years ago, we were missionaries in the Solomon Islands, arriving at the goal of our ministry: finishing a New Testament translation in the Arosi language. Ten years ago my husband Andy also had a…
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Girls Hooked on Porn: Battle Notes from a Weathered Fighter
Four months ago, when my pastor approached me to film my testimony,…
Four months ago, when my pastor approached me to film my testimony, my thoughts went something like this: “Share my testimony? You mean, I would be telling the entire church that I have dealt with an…