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Accountability Is Not About Shame and Fear
Ask any counselor, psychologist, or therapist, and they will all agree that…
Ask any counselor, psychologist, or therapist, and they will all agree that accountability is essential to lasting freedom from pornography. But what, after all, is accountability? And why is it so important to recovery and…
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Why Church Governance Must Improve (and How to Start the Process)
The recent news of abuses perpetrated by pastors and priests against children…
The recent news of abuses perpetrated by pastors and priests against children and women, and subsequent cover-ups and lack of accountable oversight, are a crushing blow to the church governance. With church attendance in rapid…
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10 Ways to Fight Temptation
James 1:14-15 clearly outlines the process of temptation, “But each one is tempted…
James 1:14-15 clearly outlines the process of temptation, “But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust. Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when…
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7 Questions Pastors Need to Answer about Porn
To the pastors and ministry leaders reading this blog post, a percentage…
To the pastors and ministry leaders reading this blog post, a percentage of your staff and people are regularly looking at pornography. And, all of your people are stuck in a world that has a…
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How Respect Shrivels the Power of Porn
If you had tried to convince me 11 years ago that I needed…
If you had tried to convince me 11 years ago that I needed to respect my porn-addicted husband, I would have laughed in your face. Not the “funny ha-ha” kind of laugh. More like a sneer…
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Your Child Struggles with Porn? You Are Not Alone
When my son told us he had been watching pornography, I wanted…
When my son told us he had been watching pornography, I wanted to throw up. When I understood the depth of his addiction and the length of time he had been watching, I berated myself,…
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Covenant Eyes Once Again Named a Fastest Growing Company
Inc. 5000 has once again named Covenant Eyes as one of the…
Inc. 5000 has once again named Covenant Eyes as one of the fastest growing private companies in America. Since 2010, the company has been recognized by Inc. Media for its year over year revenue growth and…
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When Fantasy Invades Your Marriage
Fantasy seems like an invincible foe. Close your eyes and you can…
Fantasy seems like an invincible foe. Close your eyes and you can picture anything you want, with no one to stop you. Unlimited helpings of dessert, without gaining any weight? Done. Scoring the winning touchdown…
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The Real Heart Cries Behind “God, Deliver Me from Lust!”
This post has been updated as of May 2021. Over the years,…
This post has been updated as of May 2021. Over the years, I must have asked God over a thousand times to set me free from lust and pornographic addiction. To no avail. I just…
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3 Ways Porn Shreds Marriages with a “Shame Bomb”
Some movies start with a serene setting, only to have the world…
Some movies start with a serene setting, only to have the world collapse around the main character in the first two minutes. A wife discovering porn is a lot like that. Life seems normal, almost…