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Dear Porn Addict, This Is Your Wife
Husbands addicted to porn are often totally ignorant to the relational carnage…
Husbands addicted to porn are often totally ignorant to the relational carnage it unleashes on their wife and loved ones once their addiction is exposed. Being caught as a porn addict is like dropping a…
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Why We Will Be Using Covenant Eyes for Life
We were crunching numbers, trying to make room in the budget for…
We were crunching numbers, trying to make room in the budget for something I can’t quite recall, when I asked my husband if we still needed to pay for Covenant Eyes. We were years down…
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How to Approach Sex After Betrayal
Recently, Jake* contacted me via e-mail. He’d listened to almost every interview…
Recently, Jake* contacted me via e-mail. He’d listened to almost every interview we had done and agreed with almost everything we had said, except for this: Porn is not about sex, but about fantasy. After…
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3 Accountability Lessons to Learn from Frodo and Sam
Great literature, film, and art can inform our souls and educate us…
Great literature, film, and art can inform our souls and educate us in the school of virtue. The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien, voted “the greatest book of the century” by a 1997…
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Myth Busters: “I’ll stop looking at porn when I get married”
The TV show MythBusters is known for taking popular myths and showing…
The TV show MythBusters is known for taking popular myths and showing if they are true or not. More often than not, true to the show’s name, myths are “busted,” shown for the falsehoods they…
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How to Be a Porn Addict’s Best Friend
A friend of yours may be a porn addict, but if he’s…
A friend of yours may be a porn addict, but if he’s still struggling, he might not be a really close friend. Everything about being an addict screams isolation and shame. Fear can be a strong…
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6 Ways My Husband Helped Me Heal From Betrayal
Let’s say my husband is driving a car, and I’m in the…
Let’s say my husband is driving a car, and I’m in the passenger seat. He reaches for his phone to reply to a text message, and we get in a wreck. He’s okay, but my…
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4 Myths About Our Kids and Porn
A mom recently contacted me because her 11-year-old son had been looking…
A mom recently contacted me because her 11-year-old son had been looking at porn. She didn’t know what to do and needed to talk to someone. Just the week before, Julie [name changed] was having a…
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19 Possible Motives Triggering Your Porn Consumption
Often triggers and motive are treated as two distinct things, and there…
Often triggers and motive are treated as two distinct things, and there are differences. But those differences are more akin to two sides of the same coin than apples and oranges. In this post we’ll…
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How to Set Up Parental Controls on an Amazon Kindle Fire HD
This post has been updated as of August 2020. The Amazon Kindle…
This post has been updated as of August 2020. The Amazon Kindle Fire HD is a popular tablet for young Internet users. Generally speaking, there aren’t many ways to filter the browser that comes on…