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Behind Every Woman’s Body Is a Woman
When you look at pornography, what you end up seeing is a…
When you look at pornography, what you end up seeing is a long line of naked bodies. When you look at pornography for years, you end up seeing years and years’ worth of long lines…
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Am I in Over My Head as an Ally as My Friend Fights for Purity?
We can ask this question as an expression of humility or fear.…
We can ask this question as an expression of humility or fear. Before we examine factors that indicate that your friend may need additional help (more than you as an ally), let’s consider each potential…
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Is the Fight Against Porn Only Religious?
Due to our sexualized culture, it’s easy to think that arguments for…
Due to our sexualized culture, it’s easy to think that arguments for healthy intimacy and against pornography are only made by religious organizations. For instance, when talking about the sex addiction movement, psychologist Dr. David…
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10 Ways to Help Your Spouse Heal after Sexual Betrayal
If you are the one who has wounded your spouse with your…
If you are the one who has wounded your spouse with your sexual acting out and you’ve read beyond the title of this article, I’ll assume you have at least some level of interest in…
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How to Deal with Secret Sexual Struggles
My heart was pounding. My hands were sweaty. I knew I needed…
My heart was pounding. My hands were sweaty. I knew I needed to be honest about my struggle but it was the last thing in the world I wanted to talk about. Especially to my…
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5 Tips to Remember When Helping Someone Quit Porn
How do you help someone with a porn addiction? Twenty years ago,…
How do you help someone with a porn addiction? Twenty years ago, you probably heard of someone who had a porn problem. Today, you know someone with a porn problem. In 2015, nearly 4.5 billion…
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Christian Women Need to Talk About Sexuality
I was shocked when they announced the title of the next book…
I was shocked when they announced the title of the next book study that we would be doing. I was sitting in a room in my church next to Zack, surrounded by other small group…
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The Biggest Misconception About Quitting Porn
After getting 13 years and 8 months into my recovery, and after…
After getting 13 years and 8 months into my recovery, and after helping thousands of people deal with porn, I have one specific answer to this issue. The biggest misconception about quitting porn is thinking…
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Using Covenant Eyes Transformed My Life (Scholarship Essay)
There are only a few weeks left to apply for a Covenant…
There are only a few weeks left to apply for a Covenant Eyes scholarship! Each year we award thousands of scholarship dollars to students who demonstrate integrity. Check out the application information and pass it along to…
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Why We All Need an Ally
If you’re in a partnership where one of you is addicted to…
If you’re in a partnership where one of you is addicted to pornography, you may have heard that the person struggling with the addiction needs an accountability partner. Guess what. The person who’s not addicted…