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In Loving Memory of Dr. Mark Laaser
On September 27, 2019, Covenant Eyes lost a dear friend and ally…
On September 27, 2019, Covenant Eyes lost a dear friend and ally in the fight against pornography. Dr. Mark Laaser, M.Div., Ph.D., fought cancer bravely until his last day. He was 69 years old. Mark…
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5 Benefits of Being a Quitter
Updated August 2021. I’ve been a runner for most of the last…
Updated August 2021. I’ve been a runner for most of the last 30+ years of my life. Running is a very individual sport. There’s a constant internal dialogue that goes on in my head while…
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The Lies of Lust: Stolen Humanity
The Lust Trap is a web of lies. Lies that we believe.…
The Lust Trap is a web of lies. Lies that we believe. Lies that make promises that never deliver. This three-part series tackles three of these lies head on and provides each truth needed to…
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3 Simple Steps Church Leaders Can Take to Fight Porn
It was 2001 and I was introduced to porn for the second…
It was 2001 and I was introduced to porn for the second time in my life. The first was at a bachelorette party, but I thought the whole thing a bit ridiculous, so it didn’t…
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4 Things a Grandma and a Video Game Taught Me About Porn
So there I was, standing next to a grandma I barely knew…
So there I was, standing next to a grandma I barely knew with hardcore porn playing on the big screen. I never imagined my day was going to end up like this! I was a…
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Have Porn Addiction, Will Travel
We have a closet that perpetually needs to be cleaned out and…
We have a closet that perpetually needs to be cleaned out and organized. It seems to attract junk on a daily basis. It’s also the holding spot for all things craft, which means it receives…
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Porn-Free Home: A Parent’s Survival Guide
“I first saw pornography when I was 6 when I found a…
“I first saw pornography when I was 6 when I found a pornographic video in my older brother’s room. I kept watching pornography here and there from that point on. My parents didn’t sit me…
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5 Simple (But Essential) Reasons to Stop Watching Porn Today
“I didn’t think it would end like this. I didn’t think it…
“I didn’t think it would end like this. I didn’t think it would go so far.” He sat there broken and exposed, and whispered the words through tears and gritted teeth. I had worked with…
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8 Myths That Will Roadblock Your Path to Recovery
“I think you may have an addiction. You need to be in…
“I think you may have an addiction. You need to be in recovery.” As soon as I heard those words, I fired my therapist. Me – an addict? Me – in need of recovery? I…
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Toxic Shame Has No Place in Marriage Restoration
In this article I will use female pronouns for the betrayed spouse…
In this article I will use female pronouns for the betrayed spouse and male pronouns for the addict, because that is the focus of my work. Also, parts of this article focus on unique ways…