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Stop the Spread: The Porn Pandemic
Perhaps you’ve heard, there’s a worldwide pandemic. It affects men and women…
Perhaps you’ve heard, there’s a worldwide pandemic. It affects men and women of all ages from every country. It has devastating health effects. It’s pushing people into separation and isolation. And it’s spreading rapidly. No,…
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Shame Doesn’t Know You: Ending the Life Sentence
Women who struggle with pornography all experience it in different ways—from Internet…
Women who struggle with pornography all experience it in different ways—from Internet porn, to erotica and fantasy, or a combination of all of it and more. But there is one recurring theme among women who…
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3 Ways to Use Your Covenant Eyes Report More Effectively
Covenant Eyes Screen Accountability is a powerful tool for quitting porn, nurturing…
Covenant Eyes Screen Accountability is a powerful tool for quitting porn, nurturing significant relationships, or simply encouraging and maintaining healthy digital habits. But how exactly can you use the Covenant Eyes reports for the greatest…
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Pornography Damaged My View of Sex: Jessica Harris’ Story
“You need to stop viewing your past with pornography as addiction and…
“You need to stop viewing your past with pornography as addiction and sin and start viewing it as trauma and abuse.” I sat in a chair across from my counselor, weeks away from my wedding,…
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5 Biblical Insights on Recovering Accountability in an Age of Isolation
Read Part 1: Finding the Antidote to Isolation During a Porn Pandemic…
Read Part 1: Finding the Antidote to Isolation During a Porn Pandemic In college, I would head for my dorm room after class with every intention of hunkering down to read the required pages, finish…
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Porn Made Me Feel Like a Bad Parent: Barb’s Story
Five years ago, I learned my son was struggling with pornography. I…
Five years ago, I learned my son was struggling with pornography. I was shocked and devastated. Feeling guilty and hopeless, I struggled to sleep and cried endlessly. I couldn’t understand how this had happened. He…
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Finding the Antidote to Isolation During a Porn Pandemic
Unlike most of us, porn has had a great pandemic. Porn giant…
Unlike most of us, porn has had a great pandemic. Porn giant Pornhub took advantage of the marketing opportunity and provided free streaming to quarantined cruise ship passengers. Their efforts have been successful. In the…
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Finding Healing Through the Betrayal Trauma Model
This article is written from the perspective of men struggling sexually and…
This article is written from the perspective of men struggling sexually and women in the Betrayal Trauma position. This can occur in both directions where the wife struggles and her husband is experiencing Betrayal Trauma.…
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Redeeming the Pain: Marnie’s Story
For 20 years, I thought I was the only one: the only…
For 20 years, I thought I was the only one: the only woman, especially a supposedly Christian woman, who harbored shameful sexual secrets. I did everything I could to hide them and everything I could…
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The Common Reality of Early Porn Exposure
The sad reality for nearly every adult who struggles with porn is…
The sad reality for nearly every adult who struggles with porn is that their compulsive porn use started in childhood. In the more than two decades I that have been working with hundreds of men…