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Porn Must Be an Ongoing Conversation with Your Kids
“I first saw pornography at age 12 when I got a smart…
“I first saw pornography at age 12 when I got a smart phone. I knew it was against God but I still viewed it when I was alone and didn’t let my parents know. My…
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The Lies of Lust: Fantasies That Won’t Satisfy
The Lust Trap is a web of lies. Lies that we believe.…
The Lust Trap is a web of lies. Lies that we believe. Lies that make promises that never deliver. This three part series tackles three of these lies head on and provides each truth needed…
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Sex Isn’t the Solution to Your Husband’s Porn Problem
In the first few moments after I found my husband Craig’s digital…
In the first few moments after I found my husband Craig’s digital footprints that led me to his favorite porn sites, all I could see, feel, and speak revolved around rage. I was embarrassed (because…
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Generation Porn: Single and Too Addicted to Mingle
I had the “perfect” Christian upbringing. My dad was a pastor, and…
I had the “perfect” Christian upbringing. My dad was a pastor, and our family’s faith was strongly integrated into every aspect of our life from day one. I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior…
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10 Ways Your Kids Could See Porn Without You Knowing
“Are you excited for school to start?!” As a kid, I would…
“Are you excited for school to start?!” As a kid, I would dread that question. I never wanted summer to end! Of course, now that I’m a parent, I find myself asking that question. For a…
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How a Custom Block List Can Boost Your Porn Recovery
A porn blocker can play an extremely important role in your journey…
A porn blocker can play an extremely important role in your journey to overcome porn, especially if you use it with accountability. Few people overcome porn using only a porn blocker. Screen Accountability allows you…
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10 Phrases You Should Never Say to Someone Experiencing Betrayal Trauma
Discovering the sexual betrayal of a spouse is one of the most…
Discovering the sexual betrayal of a spouse is one of the most traumatic experiences anyone can suffer. There are so few people with whom the wounded spouse can confide. Imagine this devastated individual mustering the…
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The Lies of Lust: Promises That Never Deliver
The “Lust Trap” can reel you in anytime, anywhere. Its strong pull…
The “Lust Trap” can reel you in anytime, anywhere. Its strong pull brings you in like a sci-fi tractor beam. The graphic imagery of Proverbs 7 describes it like an ox going to slaughter, a…
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8 Relationship-Saving Principles You Can Start Using Tonight
I’ll be honest with you. I betrayed my wife. I lied to…
I’ll be honest with you. I betrayed my wife. I lied to her almost every night for four straight years. I did a quick estimate and figured that I lied at least 1,000 times to…
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Do You Have the Emotional Intelligence to Quit Porn?
“Yeah, I would say Kevin is making good progress with his pornography…
“Yeah, I would say Kevin is making good progress with his pornography addiction,” Carol told me during a couple’s session when I asked if she thought her husband was on the right path of recovery.…