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Toxic Shame Has No Place in Marriage Restoration
In this article I will use female pronouns for the betrayed spouse…
In this article I will use female pronouns for the betrayed spouse and male pronouns for the addict, because that is the focus of my work. Also, parts of this article focus on unique ways…
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Three Cheers for Real Sex!
How many movies have you seen that portray a couple who’s been…
How many movies have you seen that portray a couple who’s been married for thirty years having sex? I am sure a few exist, but when you think generally about who’s having sex on the…
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When Did Porn Become Such a Big Problem?
Sometime around the mid 2000s, Internet speeds went from barely being able…
Sometime around the mid 2000s, Internet speeds went from barely being able to upload high definition photos to capable of streaming movies without a single hiccup. We moved from dial-up to DSL, to Broadband to…
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Porn Must Be an Ongoing Conversation with Your Kids
“I first saw pornography at age 12 when I got a smart…
“I first saw pornography at age 12 when I got a smart phone. I knew it was against God but I still viewed it when I was alone and didn’t let my parents know. My…
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The Lies of Lust: Fantasies That Won’t Satisfy
The Lust Trap is a web of lies. Lies that we believe.…
The Lust Trap is a web of lies. Lies that we believe. Lies that make promises that never deliver. This three part series tackles three of these lies head on and provides each truth needed…
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Sex Isn’t the Solution to Your Husband’s Porn Problem
In the first few moments after I found my husband Craig’s digital…
In the first few moments after I found my husband Craig’s digital footprints that led me to his favorite porn sites, all I could see, feel, and speak revolved around rage. I was embarrassed (because…
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Generation Porn: Single and Too Addicted to Mingle
I had the “perfect” Christian upbringing. My dad was a pastor, and…
I had the “perfect” Christian upbringing. My dad was a pastor, and our family’s faith was strongly integrated into every aspect of our life from day one. I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior…
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10 Ways Your Kids Could See Porn Without You Knowing
“Are you excited for school to start?!” As a kid, I would…
“Are you excited for school to start?!” As a kid, I would dread that question. I never wanted summer to end! Of course, now that I’m a parent, I find myself asking that question. For a…
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How a Custom Block List Can Boost Your Porn Recovery
A porn blocker can play an extremely important role in your journey…
A porn blocker can play an extremely important role in your journey to overcome porn, especially if you use it with accountability. Few people overcome porn using only a porn blocker. Screen Accountability allows you…
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10 Phrases You Should Never Say to Someone Experiencing Betrayal Trauma
Discovering the sexual betrayal of a spouse is one of the most…
Discovering the sexual betrayal of a spouse is one of the most traumatic experiences anyone can suffer. There are so few people with whom the wounded spouse can confide. Imagine this devastated individual mustering the…