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Porn’s Escalation: I Never Thought I’d Look at That!
Has your porn use escalated? Have you viewed something taboo and desired…
Has your porn use escalated? Have you viewed something taboo and desired to see more of it? Have you found yourself searching more specifically? Have you paid for porn? Have fear and shame gripped you…
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Why Surrendering to God Doesn’t Mean You’re Giving Up the Battle
Surrender is hard. Surrender is especially hard when you’re a type-A, emotional…
Surrender is hard. Surrender is especially hard when you’re a type-A, emotional caregiver who struggles with anxiety. Hello, perfect storm. I want to fix everything. I want people to be happy and healthy and free. My first…
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10 Indisputable Rules to Guide Your Recovery From Porn
Thousands of books have been written on the subject of addiction and…
Thousands of books have been written on the subject of addiction and recovery. In just a few minutes on your smart device, you can find dozens of resources: therapists, seminars, 12-step groups, and conferences. In…
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4 Keys to Actually Quitting Porn in the New Year
So, here we are starting a new year, and many are shouting…
So, here we are starting a new year, and many are shouting from the rooftops… “NO MORE PORN!” That’s right, you’re done. This is the year that you are going to hang up that pesky…
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Flying Solo? You Can Still Quit Porn.
Want to know one of the toughest parts about quitting porn? Being…
Want to know one of the toughest parts about quitting porn? Being honest with someone else about your struggle. Many, many people get stuck on this step. They feel trapped in a cycle of shame…
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9 Holiday Triggers for Porn Use (and How to Avoid Them)
Quitting porn is no easy thing to do. It requires intentional new…
Quitting porn is no easy thing to do. It requires intentional new habits and rewired thinking. And without some proactive planning, few things have the power to slow down healthy new habits like the holidays.…
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Accountability Is for the Weak
Accountability is for the weak. What does this phrase stir up in…
Accountability is for the weak. What does this phrase stir up in you? Do you agree or disagree? Are you weak or are you strong? Most of us, especially us guys, like to think of…
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Covenant Eyes Is Getting a New Look
It is an amazing time to be in the Covenant Eyes family.…
It is an amazing time to be in the Covenant Eyes family. Earlier this year, we redesigned our accountability service to identify and report pornography at the screen level. We also launched our very successful…
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Pastors and Porn: Why We Struggle and the Help We Need
For 31 years, I was a senior pastor of three churches, ranging…
For 31 years, I was a senior pastor of three churches, ranging in membership from 200 to 2,000. For every one of those 31 years, I struggled with sex addiction. I know firsthand that pastors…
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Lamar Odom and His Journey to Overcome Porn
In the summer of 2019, two-time NBA champion, Olympic medalist, and reality…
In the summer of 2019, two-time NBA champion, Olympic medalist, and reality TV star Lamar Odom announced he was giving up porn. His new girlfriend, Sabrina Parr, told him he had to remove it from…