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3 Ways to Use Your Covenant Eyes Report More Effectively
Covenant Eyes Screen Accountability is a powerful tool for quitting porn, nurturing…
Covenant Eyes Screen Accountability is a powerful tool for quitting porn, nurturing significant relationships, or simply encouraging and maintaining healthy digital habits. But how exactly can you use the Covenant Eyes reports for the greatest…
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Pornography Damaged My View of Sex: Jessica Harris’ Story
“You need to stop viewing your past with pornography as addiction and…
“You need to stop viewing your past with pornography as addiction and sin and start viewing it as trauma and abuse.” I sat in a chair across from my counselor, weeks away from my wedding,…
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Porn Made Me Feel Like a Bad Parent: Barb’s Story
Five years ago, I learned my son was struggling with pornography. I…
Five years ago, I learned my son was struggling with pornography. I was shocked and devastated. Feeling guilty and hopeless, I struggled to sleep and cried endlessly. I couldn’t understand how this had happened. He…
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Finding Healing Through the Betrayal Trauma Model
This article is written from the perspective of men struggling sexually and…
This article is written from the perspective of men struggling sexually and women in the Betrayal Trauma position. This can occur in both directions where the wife struggles and her husband is experiencing Betrayal Trauma.…
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Redeeming the Pain: Marnie’s Story
For 20 years, I thought I was the only one: the only…
For 20 years, I thought I was the only one: the only woman, especially a supposedly Christian woman, who harbored shameful sexual secrets. I did everything I could to hide them and everything I could…
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The Common Reality of Early Porn Exposure
The sad reality for nearly every adult who struggles with porn is…
The sad reality for nearly every adult who struggles with porn is that their compulsive porn use started in childhood. In the more than two decades I that have been working with hundreds of men…
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Here’s What 3 Teens Have to Say About Porn
We have received thousand of stories from people who have used Covenant…
We have received thousand of stories from people who have used Covenant Eyes to help them overcome porn addiction. Each story is unique, but all are incredibly powerful. As someone who has grown up using…
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How to Experience Healthy Sexuality in a Broken World
Most of us think about sexuality as a very private compartment of…
Most of us think about sexuality as a very private compartment of our lives. Even in the innocence of childhood, we were subtly taught to treat everything sexual differently. We learned special names for our…
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3 Ways Porn Affects Your Sex Life
I have four kids. A daughter and three boys. If you’re a…
I have four kids. A daughter and three boys. If you’re a parent, I’m sure you’ve said things that you never thought you’d have to say as a grown, mature adult. Let me give you…
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Survey Shows That Women Feel Isolated in Their Struggle With Porn
One of the problems of working in the field of porn addiction…
One of the problems of working in the field of porn addiction and recovery is that many of us tend to assume certain things about porn users. We tend to stereotype them as men married…