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How to Quit Porn: “Not Interested. Thanks. Goodbye.”
It took me about four decades to perfect the art of brushing…
It took me about four decades to perfect the art of brushing off pushy solicitors. Not that I begrudge anyone their means of making a living, but when I want something, I’ll go out shopping…
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You must have faith to get angry, do porn, and fly a plane into a building
How does that title strike you? It’s true. Paul said it this…
How does that title strike you? It’s true. Paul said it this way, For whatever does not proceed from faith is sin (Romans 14:23). Now, before your biblically trained mind blows a gasket, let me…
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Does watching porn decrease sex drive?
In her recent Men’s Health interview, the iconic Raquel Welch made some…
In her recent Men’s Health interview, the iconic Raquel Welch made some newsworthy comments about our culture’s view of sex. She says today we equate happiness with packing in as many sexual climaxes as we…
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Why Men Like Porn: Hunger vs. Appetite
If you’ve ever dieted, you know the difference between your hunger and…
If you’ve ever dieted, you know the difference between your hunger and your appetite. Your hunger signals are accurate and honest. They tell you what your body really needs, creating a discomfort based on deficits…
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Gospel-Centered Accountability: Why Some Christians Object to Using Accountability Software (Part 2 of 2)
Does using Internet accountability software mean I am relying on mere man-made…
Does using Internet accountability software mean I am relying on mere man-made barriers to keep sin at bay? When I use Covenant Eyes to keep me from looking at pornography, is this just an unhelpful…
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Gospel-Centered Accountability: Why Some Christians Object to Using Accountability Software (Part 1 of 2)
Several months ago I received an e-mail from a gentleman who works…
Several months ago I received an e-mail from a gentleman who works at a large church near Washington, DC. The subject line of his e-mail caught my attention immediately: “Respectfully: Why Covenant Eyes is a…
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Christian Marriage Advice: Why is porn so bad for marriages?
There are many ethical arguments about why porn is bad, but these…
There are many ethical arguments about why porn is bad, but these arguments often make no sense unless we first express why sex is so good. What about sex makes it good? What about porn…
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Why Is Porn Addictive?
This post has been updated as of March 5, 2021. Editor’s note:…
This post has been updated as of March 5, 2021. Editor’s note: Dr. Struthers (whose research has contributed greatly to this post) has done amazing work studying male porn addiction. We, however, want to recognize…
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How does it make a wife feel when her husband looks at porn?
Today, as Internet access has become more common, pornography has only become…
Today, as Internet access has become more common, pornography has only become more prevalent. Over half of divorce cases today involve one party having an obsessive interest in Internet porn. More and more men withdraw…
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A Black and White Choice NOT to read Fifty Shades of Grey
by Mary Kassian Fifty Shades of Grey, an erotic novel by an…
by Mary Kassian Fifty Shades of Grey, an erotic novel by an obscure British author based on Stephanie Meyer’s Twilight series, has electrified women across the country. Readers have spread the word like wildfire on…