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Husband Struggle with Porn? 3 Ways to Rebuild Your Sex Life
One of my regular speaking gigs is talking to teenagers in the…
One of my regular speaking gigs is talking to teenagers in the public school system about abstinence. A goal of the program is to help young people see that sex isn’t just physical. Our thoughts,…
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How to trust again after pornography? 5 Commandments of Sex Addiction Recovery
We are constantly getting comments on our blog from women whose husbands…
We are constantly getting comments on our blog from women whose husbands are compulsive porn users. These men are in varying stages of change in their lives: some are completely disinterested in stopping their use…
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How does porn effect the body and brain?
What are these men looking at? If you guessed porn, you’re correct.…
What are these men looking at? If you guessed porn, you’re correct. These faces appeared in a New York magazine article about the effects of porn on impotence. What does a neurologist see when he…
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The Man Talk: A Revolutionary Message to Christian Men
Recently we’ve been speaking a lot with Matt Fradd, an emerging voice…
Recently we’ve been speaking a lot with Matt Fradd, an emerging voice for sexual purity in the Catholic world. He’s an apologist and speaker with Catholic Answers and is one of the chief architects behind…
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Struggling with Sexual Purity: The Idolatry of Pornography
Mark Driscoll, the founding pastor of Mars Hill Church in Seattle, has…
Mark Driscoll, the founding pastor of Mars Hill Church in Seattle, has some powerful statements about sexual sin as “idolatry.” How is pornography linked to idolatry and what does this have to do with marriage?…
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Christian Accountability: 3 Critical Habits to Do It Right
On a recent trip to Italy my wife and I had the…
On a recent trip to Italy my wife and I had the privilege of visiting the Academia Gallery in Florence. The gallery is famous for housing Michelangelo’s masterpiece David, along with a number of his…
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Help me save my marriage! My husband watches porn
When sexual addiction has not progressed beyond pornography, this may be even…
When sexual addiction has not progressed beyond pornography, this may be even more dangerous and damaging to a marriage than when acting-out behaviors include sex acts with other people. This may not seem to make…
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Surfing For God (Book Review)
I was grateful to get an advanced copy of Michael John Cusick’s…
I was grateful to get an advanced copy of Michael John Cusick’s book Surfing For God: Discovering Divine Desire Beneath Your Sexual Struggle. I heard him on Nate Larkin’s Pirate Monk Podcast talking about his…
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How Porn is Ruining Our Future…and What We Can Do About It
In the recent summer blockbuster The Avengers, the character Captain America has…
In the recent summer blockbuster The Avengers, the character Captain America has been recently awoken from a 70-year sleep. Throughout the film is a running gag about how out-of-touch he is with modern life; he…
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Rethinking the Sex Talk (Part 1)
What every son needs to hear from his dad Many dads feel…
What every son needs to hear from his dad Many dads feel awkward when talking to their sons about girls, feelings, sex, and…yikes, pornography. Dr. Dave Currie, a counselor and president of Doing Family Right,…