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Closing the Window: Steps to Living Porn-Free (Book Review)
“The good news is that we can say to ourselves, ‘I don’t…
“The good news is that we can say to ourselves, ‘I don’t need to use porn, because God is bigger and better'”(p.65). That is the perspective of Tim Chester in Closing the Window: Steps to…
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How to Monitor Apps on Your Child’s Device
We live in a mobile world and as such, parents are buying…
We live in a mobile world and as such, parents are buying their children iPod touches, Android tablets, and smartphones. It simply is what people do nowadays. But what are parents really giving their children…
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Can I Circumvent Covenant Eyes?
There are ways to circumvent Covenant Eyes accountability software, not the least…
There are ways to circumvent Covenant Eyes accountability software, not the least of which is to go down to the local library and use its computers instead of your own. Those who are bent on…
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“Think On These Things”: Talk to Your Brain to Change Your Life
“February is a suitable month for dying. Everything around is dead, the…
“February is a suitable month for dying. Everything around is dead, the trees black and frozen so that the appearance of green shoots two months hence seems preposterous, the ground hard and cold, the snow…
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Should Wives of Porn Users “Just Get Over It”?
This comment is a whopper. Earlier this week a man was reading…
This comment is a whopper. Earlier this week a man was reading through the comments from wives on one of our popular posts and left his own criticisms. I’ve posted his thoughts below and my…
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Why Your Husband Looks at Women Online (And What to Do About It)
Why would your husband look at another woman, whether online or in…
Why would your husband look at another woman, whether online or in real life? From billboards to sex flicks to websites and chat rooms, opportunities are rampant. And it’s as easy as “sexting” pictures of…
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Training Kids to Use the Internet Safely
How does a parent help prepare their child for responsible adulthood? How…
How does a parent help prepare their child for responsible adulthood? How do we train our kids to use the Internet safely — not just avoiding temptation, but stewarding all their Internet use for the…
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Saying No to Temptation: The Fuel of Commitment
Around our house, everybody pitches in to help keep the house in…
Around our house, everybody pitches in to help keep the house in good shape. So after dinner, my eight-year old daughter, Grace, helps my wife load the dishwasher. My four-year old son, Daniel, wipes the…
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Help! My “Christian” Husband Secretly Watches Porn
Recently we received this comment from one of our readers: Hi. This…
Recently we received this comment from one of our readers: Hi. This is hard for me, as I have never posted something like this before..but here goes. I have been married since Aug 2009, and…
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Guilt vs. Shame: Why Definitions Matter
Among counseling ministries and recovery groups it is popular to distinguish between…
Among counseling ministries and recovery groups it is popular to distinguish between guilt vs shame. Feelings of guilt and shame, they say, are distinct experiences, though often related. Here’s the popular distinction: Guilt is feeling…