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Fighting Lust: The Myth of Gray Areas Online
It’s easy for us to draw big bold lines around things we…
It’s easy for us to draw big bold lines around things we know are wrong. We know pornography is wrong, but we have a hard time drawing the line at what “technically” is pornography. It’s…
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Accountability Questions: Discussion Guide For Accountability Partners
I’ve never been a huge fan of lists of accountability questions. In…
I’ve never been a huge fan of lists of accountability questions. In the past, much of my distain for them was that I liked my sin too much. Lists of accountability questions tended to expose…
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Talking to My Son About Masturbation
Christian Counselor Brad Hambrick talks to parents about the thorny subject of…
Christian Counselor Brad Hambrick talks to parents about the thorny subject of masturbation. Many moms and dads are asking, “Should I be talking to my son about masturbation? How should I do this?”
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Is Confidentiality Christian? Should you keep a friend’s sin secret?
Luke Gilkerson, blog manager at Covenant Eyes, often receives questions about the…
Luke Gilkerson, blog manager at Covenant Eyes, often receives questions about the issue of confidentiality. Here are a few examples he shared with me: 1. When I’m an accountability partner for someone else, what is…
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Don’t Ignore Your Marriage After Sexual Addiction is Discovered
Over the past month I have given a few presentations at conferences…
Over the past month I have given a few presentations at conferences for other therapists on the topic of Sex Addiction in marriage. It is such a neglected topic and has gotten me thinking. When…
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Why Internet Accountability is Like Insurance
Accidents happen even at the best of times. I was already backing…
Accidents happen even at the best of times. I was already backing out of a parking spot in my new car when the car parked behind me went into reverse. And then came the sickening…
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How Does It Feel to Be a Woman Addicted to Porn?
While each woman’s experience is unique, there are general themes for the…
While each woman’s experience is unique, there are general themes for the woman addicted to porn and/or sex: shame and guilt, conflicting messages from church and culture, feelings of worthlessness, and a profound sense of…
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Advice for Porn-Addict Recovery Groups: Avoid Struggle-Based Identity
If you have ever had a demonstrative struggle with pornography, at some…
If you have ever had a demonstrative struggle with pornography, at some point or another, you might be encouraged to join a group for men or women focused on helping one another with sexual issues.…
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Mentoring Millennials With Timeless Truths
How do we help mentor the next generation of Christians as they…
How do we help mentor the next generation of Christians as they move into the workplace and start on their life journey? Have expectations changed over the past few decades? How has new technology transformed…
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5 Tips for Online Dating for Single Christians
There are pros and cons to online dating. Pro: There are great people…
There are pros and cons to online dating. Pro: There are great people online (I have found them, know them, and am one of them). Pro: For someone immersed in a career or ministry, online dating…