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“A Clear Life”: Why one family still uses Accountability when their kids are grown
I recently had the opportunity to speak with Leila Hoffman, a long-time…
I recently had the opportunity to speak with Leila Hoffman, a long-time Accountability user, about why she uses Covenant Eyes. “When you were in school, did you ever look at a piece of amber?” Leila…
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Your Sexy Plastic Brain: Porn addiction can’t be blamed on biology
The following is an edited excerpt from Chapter 1 of the free…
The following is an edited excerpt from Chapter 1 of the free e-book The Porn Circuit: Understand Your Brain and Break Porn Habits in 90 Days. Believe it or not, men are not born ogling…
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Do you want your child (or husband) to see nudity on daytime TV?
The Federal Communication Commission (FCC) announced recently that it’s considering changing its…
The Federal Communication Commission (FCC) announced recently that it’s considering changing its decency standards. If the proposed changes are approved, it would lift the ban on explicit profanity (like the f-word) and non-sexual nudity (like…
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Two Teen Rape Victims Shamed to Death
Both girls went to house parties with friends. Both got drunk. Both…
Both girls went to house parties with friends. Both got drunk. Both were then gang raped by teenage boys from their schools. Both groups of attackers took a picture of the sexual assaults on their…
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2 Big Ways Porn Affects Those Who Watch It
Dr. William Struthers, a neuroscientist, talks about the observations he’s made about…
Dr. William Struthers, a neuroscientist, talks about the observations he’s made about the impact of porn on those who watch it. How does porn affect people? 1. For some, watching porn leads to a seeming…
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What is Porn Addiction? – Brain Scientist Tackles a Tough Question
In this interview, Dr. William Struthers talks about what exactly porn addiction…
In this interview, Dr. William Struthers talks about what exactly porn addiction is. 1. You can be a non-addict and still be an unhealthy user. As with any kind of substance or activity—whether it be…
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7 Tips for Wives of Sex Addicts: Looking for a Good Therapist
Avoiding Treatment-Induced Trauma and Finding the Help You Really Need It can…
Avoiding Treatment-Induced Trauma and Finding the Help You Really Need It can be harder than you think to find a counselor who really gets the trauma you have suffered as a partner of a porn…
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5 Lame Excuses for Putting Up with Your Husband’s Porn
Cartoon by Jerry King 1. What’s the big deal? All men look…
Cartoon by Jerry King 1. What’s the big deal? All men look at porn. It is perfectly normal. Yes, most men look at porn. In this sense your husband is normal. But the real question…
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Why spying on your husband is a bad idea (and what to do instead)
“I used to dream that I would meet a prince But God…
“I used to dream that I would meet a prince But God Almighty, have you seen what’s happened since?” -Madame Thenardier, Les Miserables One of the things I dislike about most Disney princesses is that they…
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How to Take Every Thought Captive: The Battle for Your Mind
Have you ever had someone accuse you of something that was not…
Have you ever had someone accuse you of something that was not true? Have you ever accused yourself of something that was not true? Either way, whether from you or another, any false argument launched against…