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5 Reasons Why Christian Accountability Fails
This post has been updated as of February 2021. For a Christian,…
This post has been updated as of February 2021. For a Christian, accountability plays a crucial role in personal growth and holiness. But accountability groups and partners aren’t magic pills, and there are many pitfalls…
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How to Stop Porn Addiction in Kids…Before It Starts
Among today’s young adults, porn is a common problem. Two-thirds of young…
Among today’s young adults, porn is a common problem. Two-thirds of young men and nearly half of young women think viewing porn is an acceptable way to express one’s sexuality. 64% of guys and 18%…
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Shame-Killing Churches: A Vision of Real Accountability
The following is adapted from chapter 11 of Porn Free Church: Raising up…
The following is adapted from chapter 11 of Porn Free Church: Raising up gospel communities to destroy secret sins. Accountability and authentic community among men is vital for the health of the families that make up…
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“My Boyfriend Watches Porn!” 7 Realities to Consider
If you’ve discovered your boyfriend watches porn, you’re not alone. I got…
If you’ve discovered your boyfriend watches porn, you’re not alone. I got a letter from a young woman asking about how to deal with her boyfriend’s porn habit while dating. She gave me permission to…
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Killing Mr. Hyde: The Bible’s Plan for Overcoming Sin
In my conversations with Christians about pornography—especially those who are caught in…
In my conversations with Christians about pornography—especially those who are caught in the snare of it—I am often asked if there is any good reading they could do that would help them wrap their minds…
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Kids Internet Safety Tips – 10 Truths Parents Should Teach
As a parent or guardian, you are the gatekeeper of the home.…
As a parent or guardian, you are the gatekeeper of the home. The ultimate goal of any “Internet safety tips” are not just to protect your kids but to train them to eventually live as…
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5 Simple Steps to Finding an Accountability Partner
Undoubtedly the biggest objection we get when we talk to people about…
Undoubtedly the biggest objection we get when we talk to people about using Internet Accountability Software is this: I don’t have anyone I can trust to be my accountability partner. This is a fair objection,…
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10 Signs of Porn Addiction: Do these describe your husband?
Porn “addiction” is a real phenomenon today. Many men, and an increasing percentage…
Porn “addiction” is a real phenomenon today. Many men, and an increasing percentage of women, are finding themselves helpless in the face of Internet temptations. After years of porn viewing, often starting at a young age,…
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Free E-Book: Your Brain on Porn (Revised and Updated)
Our most downloaded e-book, Your Brain on Porn, has recently been revised…
Our most downloaded e-book, Your Brain on Porn, has recently been revised and updated. Like all our e-books, it is still available for free for download. When I first wrote this book three years ago,…
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Beyond the Superficial: 7 Principles from Proverbs About Friendship
It is often a problem, especially among men, that we don’t intentionally…
It is often a problem, especially among men, that we don’t intentionally seek out good friendships. Often we don’t seek out wise counsel unless we are seeking “expert” advice. It is easier to stay on…