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Porn Myth #1: Porn is “Morally Neutral”
Pornography, some argue, is like a gun. Guns are morally neutral: what…
Pornography, some argue, is like a gun. Guns are morally neutral: what matters is how you use it. You can use a gun to defend and protect something good, or you can use it to…
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Hope After Porn: Our Marriage Would Never Be the Same
The following is chapter 1 of the book, Hope After Porn: 4…
The following is chapter 1 of the book, Hope After Porn: 4 Women’s Tales of Heartbreak and How Their Marriages Were Saved. It couldn’t have happened at a worse time. After the trauma of preterm…
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The Apostle Paul: 5 Secrets to Fighting Sexual Sin
Hugh Hefner didn’t invent sexual sin. It is a problem that has…
Hugh Hefner didn’t invent sexual sin. It is a problem that has been around since our ancestors walked east of Eden, and it will be around until the new Jerusalem descends upon us. The good…
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How to monitor teens online: A parental question in the digital age
When it comes to Internet safety, the early and middle childhood years…
When it comes to Internet safety, the early and middle childhood years can seem cut-and-dry for parents: set rules, monitor, block, filter. Easy. But as kids become teenagers, parenting can feel like uncharted waters—especially online.…
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Why Being the Porn Police Doesn’t Work
You could say we rushed into it, that we didn’t take enough…
You could say we rushed into it, that we didn’t take enough time to really get to know each other, and that if we had, perhaps I would have found out about the porn problem…
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5 Secrets to Walking in the Spirit
The following is adapted from Your Brain on Porn, a free ebook…
The following is adapted from Your Brain on Porn, a free ebook available from Covenant Eyes. The Bible does not describe us merely as wayward, broken, or needing a moral boost but as those who…
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Addiction-Proof Parenting: Will Your Children Withstand Porn Temptations?
I contemplated whether or not to use the title above for a…
I contemplated whether or not to use the title above for a book I wrote on parenting and its relationship to addiction. But I decided to use it because I like the title for this…
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My Husband’s Sex Addiction: How Christ Brought Healing to Our Marriage
Hello my name is Heather Cruz. I’ve been married to my husband,…
Hello my name is Heather Cruz. I’ve been married to my husband, Richie for 10 years. We have had a wonderful marriage and have five children, but before we were married my husband battled with…
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Yes, Porn is a Big Deal: A Response to Elite Daily
Dear Alexia, I am a Licensed Professional Counselor as well as a…
Dear Alexia, I am a Licensed Professional Counselor as well as a Certified Clinical Sexual Addiction Specialist, living and working in Houston, TX. I am writing you in response to your article on Elite Daily,…
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Building Trust Despite His Relapses: Hope for Wives of Porn Addicts
This is a story I hear a lot from women: “My husband…
This is a story I hear a lot from women: “My husband just can’t seem to kick the habit. We’ve been in this fight for years now. Whenever he gets caught, he seems to feel…