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How Much Do People View Porn?
Measuring how many people use porn is difficult to determine because there…
Measuring how many people use porn is difficult to determine because there haven’t been many widespread studies done on it. Plus, there are challenges in doing this kind of research. Some would have a broader…
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How to Fight Lust With Love
When dealing with porn we need to look at the big picture…
When dealing with porn we need to look at the big picture and the little picture. We need to fight the small battles in order to win the war. Over the years I’ve become convinced…
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Delight Your Marriage: Interview with Belah Rose
Episode 151 [powerpress] Pornography is terrible sexual education, causing both deep insecurities…
Episode 151 [powerpress] Pornography is terrible sexual education, causing both deep insecurities and impossible expectations. When couples find they just don’t “click” in the bedroom—often caused by these hidden insecurities and expectations—where can they go…
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A Letter to Porn-Loving Men: 3 Essential Ways to Help Your Wife Trust You Again
You’re probably thinking, “Is it ever possible to earn her trust again?”…
You’re probably thinking, “Is it ever possible to earn her trust again?” Especially after she said, “How can I ever trust you again?! ” Well, I’ll tell you it is possible. But—and it is a…
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So Does That Make Me an Adulterer?
“But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to…
“But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.” – Matthew 5:28 For over 28 years I’ve heard the question from…
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How Many Christians View Porn? A Lot, Actually
Today, one can easily say that porn has become the norm—even among…
Today, one can easily say that porn has become the norm—even among churchgoers. A recent survey found among Christian men… 64% admit that they view pornography at least monthly. 77% of Millennial men (18-30 years old) view…
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Your Fear of Getting Caught Is Contributing to Your Porn Addiction
What is your biggest fear? For me personally, it’s snakes. I hate…
What is your biggest fear? For me personally, it’s snakes. I hate snakes—even little, innocent, harmless garter snakes. I know they can’t hurt me. I’ve been told they’re more afraid of me than I am…
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The Peak Time for Porn: A Covenant Eyes Report
A recent research project by Covenant Eyes has proven what you might…
A recent research project by Covenant Eyes has proven what you might suspect: viewing of porn goes way up in the wee hours of the morning. Specifically, for Covenant Eyes users, Highly Mature (HM) sites goes…
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5 Accountability Questions I Wish My Ally Would Ask Me
I don’t like the word “accountability partner” any more than I like…
I don’t like the word “accountability partner” any more than I like the word “diet,” and I dislike them both for the same reason. They sound like an exception and a punishment rather than a…
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Christian Accountability: Getting It Right, Getting It Wrong, Knowing the Difference
When we want freedom from our nagging habitual sins, we often want…
When we want freedom from our nagging habitual sins, we often want a private solution to our seemingly private problem. We don’t want to involve anyone else. But what if the Bible doesn’t point us…