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Does porn provide good sex education? No. Here’s why.
Unfortunately we live in a world where porn has become the most…
Unfortunately we live in a world where porn has become the most common sex educator. It’s common for children, even before puberty, to see pornography, and then to continue watching it into adolescence. Let me…
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Intimacy is not spelled S-E-X
Intimacy is not spelled S-E-X—or at least not primarily. The sexual relationship…
Intimacy is not spelled S-E-X—or at least not primarily. The sexual relationship with our wives should be a by-product of the everyday intimacy in our lives. Intimacy given rightly, given freely, and given not for…
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Groomed: My Internet Predator Horror Story
Episode 152 [powerpress] When she was 13 years old, Alicia Kozakiewicz developed…
Episode 152 [powerpress] When she was 13 years old, Alicia Kozakiewicz developed an online friendship with Scott Tyree. Little did she know she was being groomed for an abduction. On New Year’s Day, 2002, Alicia…
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His Porn Will Change You: Should I Hold Him Accountable?
Being the spouse of a reformed (or struggling) porn addict is more…
Being the spouse of a reformed (or struggling) porn addict is more complex emotionally than many of us realize at first. Even when your husband is trying to pursue purity and both of you are…
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How Much Do People View Porn?
Measuring how many people use porn is difficult to determine because there…
Measuring how many people use porn is difficult to determine because there haven’t been many widespread studies done on it. Plus, there are challenges in doing this kind of research. Some would have a broader…
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How to Fight Lust With Love
When dealing with porn we need to look at the big picture…
When dealing with porn we need to look at the big picture and the little picture. We need to fight the small battles in order to win the war. Over the years I’ve become convinced…
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Delight Your Marriage: Interview with Belah Rose
Episode 151 [powerpress] Pornography is terrible sexual education, causing both deep insecurities…
Episode 151 [powerpress] Pornography is terrible sexual education, causing both deep insecurities and impossible expectations. When couples find they just don’t “click” in the bedroom—often caused by these hidden insecurities and expectations—where can they go…
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A Letter to Porn-Loving Men: 3 Essential Ways to Help Your Wife Trust You Again
You’re probably thinking, “Is it ever possible to earn her trust again?”…
You’re probably thinking, “Is it ever possible to earn her trust again?” Especially after she said, “How can I ever trust you again?! ” Well, I’ll tell you it is possible. But—and it is a…
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So Does That Make Me an Adulterer?
“But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to…
“But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.” – Matthew 5:28 For over 28 years I’ve heard the question from…
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How Many Christians View Porn? A Lot, Actually
Today, one can easily say that porn has become the norm—even among…
Today, one can easily say that porn has become the norm—even among churchgoers. A recent survey found among Christian men… 64% admit that they view pornography at least monthly. 77% of Millennial men (18-30 years old) view…