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Why “Adult” Entertainment Makes You More Juvenile
Two hundred years ago in the U.K., if you said you were…
Two hundred years ago in the U.K., if you said you were going to a “gentleman’s club,” it was understood you were going to a private upper-class establishment where you could relax, read, play parlor…
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A Marriage Redeemed from Porn: Darren and April’s Story
Darren was in seminary, in training to be a minister, but his…
Darren was in seminary, in training to be a minister, but his secret addiction to porn was growing. His wife April tried many things to help Darren to stop, but finally after 11 years of…
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Becoming Belle Knox: Behind-the-Scenes Life of a Porn Star
“I’m a porn star, ex-cutter, rape victim. That’s a lot of baggage…
“I’m a porn star, ex-cutter, rape victim. That’s a lot of baggage for one person to carry…I’m just taking things day by day, and I’m just as confused as every other person out there. There’s…so…
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5 Things I Always Say to Porn-Shocked Wives
I answer a lot of letters from women dealing with the discovery…
I answer a lot of letters from women dealing with the discovery of porn in their marriages. Mostly, they are shocked and hurt and alone, wondering where to go from here. While I answer every…
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What It’s Like to Live Porn-Free
My friend Sam fell into a bad crowd during high school and…
My friend Sam fell into a bad crowd during high school and sadly I saw him transform from a bubbly, happy kid to a constantly doped-up, intellectually deadened player. I thought the Sam I knew…
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10 Signs of Porn Addiction: Do these describe your husband?
Is your husband addicted to porn? If you know—or suspect—he is watching…
Is your husband addicted to porn? If you know—or suspect—he is watching porn, how can you tell if it’s an occasional past-time or a full-on addiction? It can be traumatizing to find out that your…
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The Day She Left Him: How Porn Nearly Destroyed Their Marriage
Episode 158 [powerpress] Darren was in seminary, in training to be a…
Episode 158 [powerpress] Darren was in seminary, in training to be a minister, but his addiction to porn was growing. Four years into their marriage, his wife April found out about it and continued to…
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Dismantling the Myth: “You Can Look, But You Just Can’t Touch”
Years ago I worked with a guy who was very open about…
Years ago I worked with a guy who was very open about the fact that he looked at pornography. He was married and had a few kids, but he brought porn magazines to work and…
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Discovering Practices for a Porn-Free Life: Biz Gainey’s Story
Biz Gainey has been married to Melissa for twenty years, with three…
Biz Gainey has been married to Melissa for twenty years, with three children. He serves as a pastor of a local congregation committed to soul keeping and spiritual formation for the sake of others. He…
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For Men Addicted to Porn: 8 Ways to Rebuild Trust with Your Wife
This post has been updated as of August, 2020. When a woman discovers…
This post has been updated as of August, 2020. When a woman discovers her husband has been watching porn behind her back, it can feel absolutely devastating. It is a traumatic discovery in the truest sense…