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Ex-Porn Star Tells the Truth About the Porn Industry

Last Updated: September 5, 2024

Chatsworth, California produces 85% of the world’s adult content. All of the top female talent agencies are located in or within the Chatsworth local radius. Female performers are flown or fly to Chatsworth to work in the adult industry. All of the world’s top male talents live or travel to Chatsworth California for work. Every major and minor adult DVD Company is in the local Chatsworth radius. 

The California pornography industry is a destructive, drug-infested, abusive, and sexually diseased industry that causes severe negative secondary effects on female and male adult industry workers as well as the general public. I am confident of the above because not only was I a stripper, pornographic performer, and escort in the California pornography industry from 1986 to 1994, but I have also counseled with or spoken to over 300 female and male workers in the pornography industry as well as those struggling with pornography addiction. 

I have been working with adult industry workers since 2002, when I began volunteering as a teacher and counselor at local rescue missions and prisons in the State of California. I have worked at Madera Rescue Mission, Bakersfield Rescue Mission, Central California Women’s Facility Prison, and Valley State Prison for Women and have traveled throughout the United States as a speaker and counselor on the negative effects of pornography at various churches, recovery programs, and secular organizations. 

General Statistics on the Porn Industry 

In my daily work of assisting women and men recovering from the pornography industry, as well as those struggling with pornography addiction and gathering research over a period of several years, I have learned significant facts to prove that indeed the California pornography industry is causing severe secondary negative effects on adult industry workers as well as the general public, which is involuntarily exposed to pornography, especially children, whose average age of first internet exposure to pornography is 11 years old. 

According to pornography statistics: 

  • It is estimated that there are 4.2 million porn websites—12% of the total amount of sites—allowing access to 72 million worldwide visitors monthly. 
  • One-quarter of the total daily search engine requests, or 68 million, are for pornographic material, where 40 million Americans are regular visitors. 
  • According to comScore Media Metrix, 71.9 million people visited adult sites in August 2005, reaching 42.7 percent of the internet audience. 
  • The United States adult film industry produces 4,000–11,000 films a year and earns an estimated $9–$13 billion in gross revenues annually. 
  • An estimated 200 production companies employ 1,200–1,500 performers. Performers typically earn $400–$1,000 per shoot and are not compensated based on distribution or sales. 
  • Lobbyist Bill Lyon told 60 Minutes that the porn industry employs 12,000 people in California and pays the state $36 million in taxes per year. When 60 Minutes first spoke to Lyon, he was running the free speech coalition, a trade organization that represents 900 companies in the porn business. 

Porn Workers Frequently Receive STDs 

Adult film performers engage in prolonged and repeated sexual acts with multiple sexual partners over short periods of time, creating ideal conditions for transmission of HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). All the more concerning, high-risk sex acts are on the rise. 

At the same time, condom use is reportedly low in heterosexual adult films—approximately 17% for adult performers. In 2004, only two of the 200 adult film companies required the use of condoms. Performers report that they are required to work without condoms to maintain employment. 

These practices lead to high transmission rates of STDs and occasionally HIV among performers. After four performers contracted HIV in 1998, Sharon Mitchell, a former adult film performer, founded Adult Industry Medical, a clinic to counsel and screen performers monthly for HIV. 

The current practice of periodic HIV and STD testing may detect some diseases early but often fails to prevent transmission. In April 0f 2004, three performers who had been compliant with monthly screening contracted HIV. At that time, a male performer who had tested HIV negative only three days earlier infected three of 14 female performers. 

What the Performers Say About STDs 

In statements I have received from females and males working in the pornography industry and those who previously worked in the industry, at least 80% admit to catching an STD while working in the California pornography industry. 

  • I personally caught the non-curable disease Genital Herpes in 1994 and was not given any information or help from porn producers or the adult industry. 
  • Jan Meza, a former porn actress who left the porn industry in October 2007, publicly shared of late that she discovered she has Herpes. She is totally devastated in that she caught a non-curable disease. 
  • Belladonna, a well-known pornographic performer states: “99% of the porn industry has herpes.” 
  • One male pornographic performer, Rocco, 600 films and 3,000 women later, says: “Every professional in the porn-world has herpes, male or female.” 
  • Tanya Burleson, formerly known as Jersey Jaxin, caught Chlamydia her first year working. She exclaimed, while speaking with me, “I don’t believe I worked with one person who didn’t at one time have an STD.” Tanya made over 200 movies in her three-year career. She also says, “Performers have to pay for their own testing, their medicine, and lose at least eight days of work every time they catch a sexually transmitted disease.” 

Sexually transmitted diseases are highly prevalent in the pornography industry. Among 825 porn performers screened in 2000–2001, 7.7% of females and 5.5% of males had Chlamydia and 2% overall had gonorrhea. Dr. Sharon Mitchell confirms the STD prevalence in an interview with Court TV, in which she states: “66% of porn performers have herpes, 12-28% have sexually transmitted diseases and 7% have HIV.” 

Why Some Porn Stars Also Work at Escort Services 

Pornographic performers and adult industry workers also often engage in prostitution through escort agencies such as Body Miracle, Dreamgirls, and Porno Star Escorts, where they not only risk sexually transmitted disease but also HIV and hepatitis C infection. 

Pornographic performers usually prefer escorting because the pay is much higher and sex acts are not as degrading or physically demanding. They receive approximately $100 an hour for working in pornographic films or $1500 an hour for escorting. Adult industry workers who are also pornographic performers get paid higher than other adult escorts due to their celebrity status and can book 2-3 hour appointments and make approximately $3000 a day. Agents also lie to women in the adult industry and lure them into prostitution. Porn performer Erin Moore says, “Some agents lie to the girls and tell them they are shooting a scene when instead they set up prostitution acts for them.” 

While I was a pornographic performer in 1993-94, I was flown to different parts of the United States by porn companies where consumers of pornography sometimes paid me thousands of dollars to spend a weekend with them where we engaged in unprotected sex. During one appointment with a man and his wife, we engaged in unprotected sex and I passed the disease to both of them. Pornographic performers and adult industry workers definitely spread sexually transmitted diseases to the general public. 

The Prevalence of Drug Abuse in the Porn Industry 

Another secondary negative effect of the adult industry is the exposure to drugs and drug addiction. Porn actress Erin Moore admits, “The drugs we binged on were Ecstasy, Cocaine, Marijuana, Xanax, Valium, Vicodin, and alcohol.” 

Tanya Burleson, formerly known as Jersey Jaxin, says, “Guys are punching you in the face. You get ripped. Your insides can come out of you. It’s never-ending. You’re viewed as an object—not as a human with a spirit. People do drugs because they can’t deal with the way they’re being treated.” 

One male porn star says on his blog on January 28, 2008: 

“Drugs are a major, major problem in my business. Anyone who says otherwise is lying to you. I can’t tell you the number of girls who have disappeared and dropped out of the business because of their drug problems. It is unbelievably sad to think about, and seeing some of them fall into a downward spiral hurts me more than others. But I think we all can agree that a huge majority of drug users will never change unless they get professional help. 

I have seen all manner of drugs on set, at parties, in cars, everywhere. If I had to guess, I would put marijuana use at 90% of ALL people involved in the industry (performers, directors, crew, agents, drivers, owners, office workers, etc.). 

I have been on a set where a girl has passed out during a sex scene with me (she was abusing oxycontin). Just recently a girl overdosed on GHB (a party drug that is a clear odorless drug that doesn’t mix well with alcohol) on set. I have seen a girl win a prestigious AVN Award, not show up to accept the award, and then fall into the throes of drug use that caused her to lose at least 50 pounds and drop off the face of the earth. 

Why is drug use so prevalent in our business? Well, let’s figure that out. 

First of all, remember that the business is populated largely with girls aged 18-21. And the majority of those girls are uneducated (many haven’t graduated high school). Add to that the fact that many come into the business because they have no money and are working at menial jobs like fast food places. So you have young girls who are uneducated with very little money entering the business. 

Once they are in the business, they are now making ten thousand dollars a month and working maybe five hours a day 10-15 days a month. There are predators out there that can smell these girls and prey on them like sharks. Young, uneducated girls with lots of money, lots of free time, and very little supervision. This is a really bad equation (unless you are a drug dealer of course).” 

All Porn Industry Workers Experience Abuse 

In addition to prevalent drug use, degradation and abuse are rampant in the pornography industry. In one study, 100% of the strippers reported some kind of verbal or physical abuse on their jobs.

Verbal abuse by customers is extremely common with 91% reporting incidents. They were routinely called degrading names. 

Besides the verbal abuse, all endured some type of physical abuse on the job. Despite the fact that it is illegal to touch a stripper, strippers reported that customers: 

  • Grabbed them by the arm (88%) 
  • Grabbed their breast (73%) 
  • Grabbed their buttock (91%) 
  • Pulled their hair (27%) 
  • Pinched them (58%) 
  • Slapped them (24%) 
  • Bit them (36%) 

The strippers are often attacked in front of the strip club bodyguards and other audience members. 

Former pornographic performer Alex Devine shares her violent experience and writes: 

“Donkey Punch was the most brutal, depressing, scary scene that I have ever done. I have tried to block it out of my memory due to the severe abuse I received during the filming. The guy, Steve French, has a natural hatred towards women in the sense that he has always been known to be more brutal than EVER needed. I agreed to do the scene thinking it was less beating, except the ‘punch’ in the head. If you noticed, Steve had worn his solid gold ring the entire time and continued to punch me with it. I actually stopped the scene while it was being filmed because I was in too much pain.” 

There is a very heavy emphasis on rougher, more sadistic sex, with slapping, spitting, violent hair-pulling, and scenes of extremely abusive hardcore sex acts. In one film, the man forces the woman’s head into a toilet during the final scene, a technique that seems to help him achieve climax. 

See Porn and Sexual Violence: 7 Important Facts.

Safe Workplace Laws Aren’t Enforced in California

In California, every employer is required to ensure that employees have a safe working environment. In 1973, the California Occupational Safety and Health Act was enacted to assure safe and healthful working conditions for all California working men and women by authorizing the enforcement of effective standards, assisting and encouraging employers to maintain safe and healthful working conditions, and by providing research, information, education, training, and enforcement in the field of occupational safety and health. 

Employers in the California porn industry are required to provide a safe and healthful workplace for employees, even pay the costs of a health and safety program, and yet this is not the standard in the adult industry. 

Currently, employers in the California pornography industry completely ignore the laws of the State of California to protect adult industry workers. This causes severe secondary negative effects on workers by subjecting them to physical and emotional abuse, major degradation and violence, illegal drugs, sexually transmitted diseases, and entrapment into prostitution. This is the standard of the California pornography industry. Any adult industry employer or worker who tells you differently is blatantly lying and does not value human life, but is rather destroying human life for the gluttonous love of money. 

Get More Facts About the Porn Industry and Its Impact on Consumers

The porn industry has a dark side for porn workers, but porn has some strong negative effects on consumers too. Learn more about the harms of porn and get the latest statistics on the porn industry in our free ebook Porn Stats.  

  1. A woman who knows

    Miss Shelley-Thank you so much for educating people on the realities of pornography. I used to be in the industry myself. (I reside in a big city in the USA). I originally got into the business to avoid homelessness after running away. It was exciting and the money was instant gratification and I became addicted to the lifestyle and never ending flow of cash. Then, while working in a whorehouse, three thugs somehow got in and I was raped. I did press charges-come to find out the guy who did that to me was wanted for murder. I became (more) addicted to drugs, but kept working as a high class escort. I also did a few films. No condoms. I was scared to death-but oh the money! I then attained a “sugar daddy” who drove me so crazy with his abuse that I ended up in psychiatric hospitals. I felt so trapped that I considered suicide many times. Now, after stopping working in the sex biz, I am strong, independent, and successful without having to sell my body for quick money. I love Jesus, and after accepting him as my saviour, my life has changed dramatically! I am genuinely happy, I love myself again, and I have everything I need. I advise any girls and women who are reading this to not make the same mistakes I unfortunately did. I have been diagnosed with PTSD, bipolar disorder, and depression. Since I stopped using drugs, and have been on my legitimately prescribed medication, I can finally function in life again. God bless everyone, and thanks for reading my story.

  2. Sunny

    You are doing gud by helping for the victims. I also want to protest with you for adult industries

  3. John Jeremy

    Shelley ….you are doing a wonderful job…please carry on…. all my best wishes….
    Please save people from doing porn……save the performers who are in the industry now…There is a lot of porn and it can be continued for next 150 years…so no more is required please save all…….Take care

  4. T Skee

    Here we go again. Phoenix is correct in sayin that it does not hurt anyone. When luke compares it to suicides is OBSURD. 1 there is not a single possible way to compare the 2 so y would u. That makes no sence. But I see where its goin back to the religious aspect. But I’m not goin there cause its not the topic. Suicide is for someone who fels they have no way out of a life they cannot get control of. I don’t think its wrong as long as there is no attempt to injure others I.e. sitting in a car with oncoming train that makes it wrong cause other lives r affected.

    And we as a society are makin up to many “dissorders” to make excuses. Simple fact is that we all have something wrong with us nobodys perfect so y would u wanna make a excuse of it.

    • T Skee

      Also morality is a personal preerences. My morals are differnet from u. But fyi I watch porn almost everyday. Does that make me sick? No y? Because I still function w/o it. I use it for a medical reason I look different so there it is. Making up a dissorder is a excuse to explain away somethin we don’t like about ourselves. We just need to accept our actions simple and plain

    • Luke Gilkerson

      T Skee – The suicide analogy exposes the absurdity of your notion that just because someone does something to themselves and harm no one else, this makes it okay. But I see you don’t have a problem with this either, which at least makes you consistent.

    • T Skee

      Luke,

      Again u obviously are NOT reading what I’m sayin. Suicide is not right I don’t agree with it specially if its due to self pitty. But those that are truely mentally ill that cannot afford medicla or anything like that. What would u prefer? Payin for their medical bills via taxes or payin for their boarding at a jail or mental institute cause they took their agression out on a INNOCENT person. Id prefer they offed themselves. If that makes me wrong oh well. If innocent gets hurt what is more wrong?

      BACK TO TOPIC
      I don’t think porn is wrong. It can be used and abused which is wrong and should be handled by law enforcement. The performers should NOT be judged that “hey ur a porn star and u ask for it” it makes abuse that happens to them ok. Its not. The issue needs to be fixed. Just like any job they should be able to go to work feel safe and enjoy their job. Tell me I’m wrong?.

    • Luke Gilkerson

      I was only bringing in the suicide angle because of what Phoenix said, “There is nothing inherently wrong with sex work, just as there is nothing inherently wrong with any act that does not hurt anyone else.” That is what is truly absurd. I was pointing out that absurdity by applying his principle to something else entirely. Hurt “someone else” is not the only barometer of right and wrong.

      Yes, back on topic… We do agree at least on the principle that if porn is going to be legal that it needs to be a safe workplace. Unfortunately that has not happened in California, as Shelley points out here. When I interviewed Shelley back in February she told me about their initiative to require condoms on the porn sets (just like a doctor who works with bodily fluids is required to wear gloves). The porn industry in California is blatantly defying the law and doing so openly: only a handful of producers are complying. In fact, they are so defiant, they would rather relocate than comply.

      Personally, I don’t believe porn can be made “safe enough” for the same reasons prostitution can’t be made safe enough. Porn is, after all, a form of legalized prostitution. The world of commercial sex(of which porn is a part) comes with the inherent danger of a world where men buy sex for money. Go anywhere where women are bought and sold (even by choice), whether is Las Vegas, Mexico City, or Phnom Penh, and you find brutality.

      But this is only the tip of the iceberg. Where we disagree is I do believe porn is wrong because it commodifies and industrializes sex and trains men and women to dehumanize one another. Of course the impact on each person varies considerably, but the the message of porn comes through loud and clear: It is okay to lust after a woman’s body parts as if she doesn’t matter as a person.

    • T Skee

      Luke,

      So as u said that california law requires the producers to have condoms on hand yes? So ur also telling me that if a performer wanted to wear a condom or have their counterpart wear a condom they can’t spend 10bucks at the local drug store and buy a pack huh? NOW I’m not sayin the producers r right cause3 according to what u said they r breaking the law plain as day.I get that. BUT can’t the perfomers take a little initiative n get them too?

      And guess what not just men watch porn. Women do to they just won’t admit it cause its easy for a man to say “hey its a guy thing”. But what about the ugly beast Fabio? Is he not industrialized and commodified and lusted upon by women? Simple fact is its human nature to lust its in our nature to desire the “perfect mate” and if u think I’m wrong check the studies. Women watch porn too they just won’t admit to it. U can’t blame only men I’m sorry maybe we r as men are a big part of it but guess what we r not the only piece to the pie.

    • Luke Gilkerson

      T Skee – First, the issue about condoms in porn films (which will appear on the LA county ballot in November) is not related to whether a pornstar can take initiative and buy condoms for herself. Yes, any actress could do that, but directors control what they want shown in their films. As famous porn producer Ron Jeremy has said, “We don’t mind wearing rubbers, but no matter how you slice it, the viewers don’t want to see them.” It is a matter of supply and demand. If viewers don’t want to buy films that show condoms, then producers will not want to make them. Girls can insist on them being used for health reasons, but she won’t be working in the porn industry for long.

      The point is that the porn production companies bear this responsibility. If I am a doctor operating on patients without the proper gloves, I would expect that the hospital administration to take action. Similarly, if a guy and a girl on the porn set start having sex without a condom, I would expect the producers and directors to take action. They don’t. And they’ve explicitly said they don’t want to comply. No matter what a pornstar might want to do on the set, the responsibility to ensure her safety lies in the hands of those who hire her.

      Second, you are right: Porn is also viewed by women. I’ve written many articles about this on our blog and just wrote a recent article about female porn addiction for our monthly e-zine. I also coordinated a webinar for women who struggle with this a couple months ago. I don’t think anyone here is blaming men specifically for the demand for porn.

    • T Skee

      Luke,

      Simple fact is that there is not enough exposure no pun intended on this subject. Yay its on the internet so its out there forever great but how many ppl r readin and replyin on this blog? Not many that’s the problem. If you or I want anything to change where is the media? Where’s law enforcement to enforce said laws that r bein broken? There not here r they NO y? Cause there isn’t enough attention on this. If u want it changed get the word out and make noice cause I’m sorry shelley but if this is one of the few blogs on the issue its just not gonna cut it. Public outcry can change a lot that is undeniable. So give that a shot. If a actress/actor doesn’t wanna wear a condom then don’t. If they are coerced to without it go to court with the statute of sueing them with their intent to “inflict bodily harm” try that make noice rock the boat do somthing this blog isn’t gonna cut it. And they can and do have a choice on wheter ot not to do a scene with a condom. If they don’t the don’t do the scene there’s a reason god created “boycots” isn’t there. And yes I know I am pretty sure I spelled that wrong. That’s the initiative that I was refering to as well

    • Luke Gilkerson

      You are right: there’s isn’t enough exposure about this. This blog post is one of many out there, but there isn’t nearly enough press. But at least big organizations like Cal-Osha are going after porn producers now. We’ll see what happens in California in November: if the voters uphold the law in LA County, producers will likely pack up and move. Now, this won’t change things systemically, but California makes a large percentage of the world’s porn. If something happens there, it might raise national awareness.

    • Horseman

      Well since condoms were voted to be used in nov.Lets see it enforced,i feel the watchin and making of porn will start to decline.Im sure theyll move to where they dont have to use them.For a porn star loosing his/her job for not using one?wow,theres millions of americans out of work willing to do a job they dont like or wernt even trained for.I sure dont feel for a out of work porn star.Addictions are treatable.Any one heard of the new laughn disorder?gimme a break,this country is hooked on instant gratification,disorders & prescriptions.Just the way the pharmasuiticle co.’s like it.Laughn is the best medicine,if one wants to stop laughn,stick your finger in a door jamm and slamm the door.If ones child is watching porn,take away the internet conn. .Adults make your own bed and lay in it yes?All one has to do is learn from history,as in Greece and Rome,to know the dangers and to know better than to dive into the instant gratification and seemingly unimportant decisions.

    • Horseman

      You two guys are making some excellent point.If the laws are inforced the problems of porn will start to melt……im still laughn about an out of work porn star/hooker or escort…..poor wuttle porn star.

      I hate condoms,i thank the gods ive a fantastic wife of many years.Honestly when we were first dating we watched some porn,but it didnt last for long for several reasons.
      Why watch some one picking apples when you have the best home made apple pie waiting to be ate in your own kitchen.

  5. phoenix

    There is nothing inherently wrong with sex work, just as there is nothing inherently wrong with any act that does not hurt anyone else. It is the lack of standards and of regulations- the industry runs unsupervised and corrupt, and this is what happens.
    As far as “porn addiction” goes, I think a lot of people, Christians in particular, call any desire to watch pornography an addiction. I beg to differ- we have human urges and human needs, and it’s very natural to want to watch others have sex. An addiction would go above and beyond, say, someone who needs to watch it to climax at all, or begins to lose desire for their spouse due to mental reprogramming (from watching too much porn perhaps, or other reasons could be involved as well- maybe their partner’s tight sphincter, low self-confidence and paranoia about their partner’s internet activities).
    Just Sayin’

    • Luke Gilkerson

      @phoenix – Interesting thoughts.

      1. To say there is nothing wrong with sex work on the grounds that he does not hurt anyone else is like saying there’s nothing wrong with suicide because you only kill yourself. There is such a thing as immoral systems that promote self-harm. Besides, there are many other harms that come from the product produced by the porn industry.

      2. The problem of porn addiction is even recognized by the medical community. The DSM-V is due to come out in the next couple years and will be including “hypersexual disorder” in it. When we we say “addiction” we mean exactly what your describe: a dependency on the material, a loss of self-control, the need for more extreme material to achieve climax. You are right: there are some things mislabeled addiction that probably shouldn’t be (such as compulsive or impulsive behavior) but this does not negate the fact that addiction really exists.

  6. T Skee

    Y is it everyone has to turn a conversation about 1 thing into religion. UNDERSTAND FOOLS not everything revolves round god. Yes I’m a believer but this isn’t about that. This is about how porn performers and their families are injured or tormented because the system is eithr corrupt or completly shattered. BACK ON TOPIC

    • Enlightened

      He who sees all, hears all, knows all, created ALL , and WILL eventually DESTROY ALL has everything to do with ANYTHziNG no matter how small or big — he’s watching- he knows – so everyone needs to put their common sense lil cap on no pun intended and KNOW GOD is ALPHA & OMEGA — porn is evil – thus of satan – God cast Satan Aka lucifer out of hell … So u see …. It always goes back to God it always has – it always will . I myself wld be very afraid to try and belittle him. When God has enough of this fealty – evil- disgusting world – He will destroy it! And u best believe it’s coming – sooner than we think and will be mightier than a human can even begin to imagine ….

      So YES it is about God it will ALWAYS be about GOD

  7. Tyrannus

    Lol I believe God does not currently manifest his power in physical ways such as curing Herpes. If that was so, then he wouldn’t allow catastrophes. He expects his message to be spread by his messengers in this age. However, as previously stated, living a healthy lifestyle might have caused some scientific difference that allowed the symptoms to fade. It is medically impossible to be cured of it. Old testament -> New testament. Now to the pornstars: they choose the life, they choose the regrets. Heres an example; just as a bank robber takes the risk of 10 years in jail, so a pornstar risks a life of emotional distress and physical degradation. However, the difference between the two are the skillsets required. To rob a bank, one must have the know how and tools for the job; these usually come after a fair amount of practice, the acquisition of contacts, etc. Therefore, I would assume that a skilled robber would be at a point in his mental development which would allow him to make a more informed decision about the cost and affect of his actions. A pornstar, on the other hand, requires usually only one skill, if it can even be called such: a beautiful physical appearance. This is usually found very early in life, and so it’s my belief that many of these girls make uninformed decisions because of their young age and mental inadequacy. These girls did choose the lifestyle, but just as a 16 year old child who is addicted to heroin, they should be given grace because of their inability to use the skill of foresight, which comes later in life when one has gained some maturity. Therefore, I commend this woman for looking to help some of these girls. Some indeed know and understand the consequences, but many don’t, and this woman is to be commended for her actions. /endwalloftext

  8. Tyrannus

    Lol I believe God does not currently manifest his power in physical ways such as curing Herpes. If that was so, then he wouldn’t allow catastrophes. He expects his message to be spread by his messengers in this age. However, as previously stated, living a healthy lifestyle might have caused some scientific difference that allowed the symptoms to fade. It is medically impossible to be cured of it. Old testament -> New testament. Now to the pornstars: they choose the life, they choose the regrets. Heres an example; just as a bank robber takes the risk of 10 years in jail, so a pornstar risks a life of emotional distress and physical degradation. However, the difference between the two are the skillsets required. To rob a bank, one must have the know how and tools for the job; these usually come after a fair amount of practice, the acquisition of contacts, etc. Therefore, I would assume that a skilled robber would be at a point in his mental development which would allow him to make a more informed decision about the cost and affect

  9. David Dutton

    I am a Baptist Preacher, I preach at a Rescue mission, and Veterans Home I have thirteen GrandChildren and Two Greatgrand Sons, the People I see at the Mission come from every area of Society. I was amazed at the amount of people observing Pornography, and the money spent on this, more surprising was how many people I did not know the extent of Children that have access to Porn sites. I had two of my Granddaughters stay with my wife and I they are Teenagers. They told me their parents had watched Porn and so had they. It is a shame I preach against this and I warn others about, looking at this type of Material and Movies. I just had recently a Man Die of HIV at the mission we have a Hospice room. He was a Male prostitude, I deal with Female prostitudes also and try to lead them to Jesus Christ, and get them off the streets, the battle is up hill not only for porn but Drug addiction and Alcoholism

  10. Sicilianguy

    Ok so I have read your entire artical. Some what imformative. I work in the brothel industry and porn industry myself. The herpes or any other diseas can be transmitted anytime in porn or out. Now everyone has their reasons to do porn or prostitution. Examples would be pay off school, help family, or just get ahead in life. That is where your brain comes into play. What you do with the money is up to you. Yes it is hard work not what people think of just come and do the deed. It takes hours of prep work and yes you get tested in the proper porn companies. The no condom in gay porn is truly risky because you have a higher chance of contracting. Also to bring in religion to something in this type of topic is just stupid. It’s like talking politics. Everyone has their views and what not. I understand people want to so called help. Really educate yourself more before you go after something and it is your own view. We all have demons we hide from everyone. We are categorized in certain ways. Some good some bad. Some people are week and get caught up in the scene. It can be unfortunate. We are all responsible for our own actions and trust me people who claim they are innocent and prey to what ever have also done wrong. So this is my point of view. Yes some time people do need help they loose their way in what their goal is or what not but hey you live and learn. We provide a service to the so called less fortunate people who need and want the attention we can provide that no one else can give. Also for people who are in the closet about what ever fetish they have from toes to bunt cakes. So try a different aprouch to get the affect you are looking for. Marketing is a key play here

    • T Skee

      I completely agree. The fact that people bring religion into everything is annoying. What makes religion so perfect that everybody with so called “demons” has to turn to. I seem to remember a lot of bad things happenin in the catholic church, christian church, hell even the jewish church. All what I just said proves is that what ever MAN touches is NOT PERFECT by no means. Even the most “pure” person has things that aren’t inside them. So there it is. If that’s not the truth or u think its not then ur truely nieve

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“The Youth Pastor Did What?!” Talking About Porn in Church

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