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9 Foundational Scriptures to Help Rebuild Your Marriage
The world around us is not just wandering, but running, away from…
The world around us is not just wandering, but running, away from the biblical foundational truths concerning marriage and Who created it. So it would then follow that worldly solutions won’t fix the problem. Problems cannot…
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4 Ways to Cultivate Empathy with Your Spouse
Dear betrayed spouse, I hate to break this to you, but somewhere…
Dear betrayed spouse, I hate to break this to you, but somewhere along the journey very well-meaning people will give you their well-meaning advice. Just be prepared. They will tell you not to pull away. They will…
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What You Need to Know About Gaslighting
There I was, in the Food 4 Less parking lot, just sitting…
There I was, in the Food 4 Less parking lot, just sitting in my car. Bawling. I hadn’t known where else to go. I just knew I needed somewhere safe–somewhere my mind and heart could…
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How Can I Prepare for My Husband’s Next Porn Relapse?
Once upon a time, I was blissfully happy. No, my life wasn’t…
Once upon a time, I was blissfully happy. No, my life wasn’t perfect or easy. Instead, it was real–messy, but meaningful. I lived and worked passionately within the world of pornography addiction and betrayal trauma…
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Your Wife Has Triggers Too
He picks up his phone to check e-mail, respond to a few…
He picks up his phone to check e-mail, respond to a few texts, and see who’s winning the game. It’s happened thousands of times before–but this time is different. He glances up and catches his…
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How to Talk to Your Husband about His Porn Use
If you’re reading this article, you may be one of the thousands…
If you’re reading this article, you may be one of the thousands of women each year who discover that their husband’s online viewing habits include pornography. Perhaps you’re a woman whose relationship with your husband…
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Why I’ve Never Placed My Wife as Number One
I’ve never placed my wife as number one in our relationship. For…
I’ve never placed my wife as number one in our relationship. For the first 20 years of our marriage I had completely selfish reasons for not putting her first. For the last 13 years of our marriage…
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Have you ever been tempted to cheat?
Given my husband’s attraction to other women over the years, it was…
Given my husband’s attraction to other women over the years, it was almost a given that someone would later ask me, “Have you ever cheated on your husband?” My answer: “No, I have never cheated…
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True Story: His Porn. Her Pain. Healed.
During this interview, we had the privilege of hearing from Jay and…
During this interview, we had the privilege of hearing from Jay and Lori Pyatt as they shared their story of Jay’s porn use, the pain Lori experienced as a result, and the amazing transformation that…
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An Open Letter to the Wives of Porn Addicts
On behalf of myself and the other husbands addicted to porn, I am…
On behalf of myself and the other husbands addicted to porn, I am sorry. We have given your place to another and it is wrong. You knew some men struggle with this; you just didn’t think…