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Why Boundaries in Porn Recovery Are Challenging
“To the extent that we can’t control something we don’t like, we…
“To the extent that we can’t control something we don’t like, we fear it.” – John Z., Grace in Addiction Early recovery is monumentally difficult. Not only are porn addicts trying to achieve sobriety, but…
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Can the Husband of a Porn Addict Experience Betrayal Trauma?
Betrayal trauma affects many people, especially the spouses of porn addicts. We…
Betrayal trauma affects many people, especially the spouses of porn addicts. We hear much about the betrayal trauma experienced by wives. Entire ministries have been organized to support wives of those struggling with pornography. But…
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Soul-Care For Wives of Porn Addicts
Two are better than one because they have a good return for…
Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor: If either falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help…
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My Choice Between Marriage and Porn
The following narrative is based on a true story shared by one…
The following narrative is based on a true story shared by one of our members. Names and details have been changed to protect privacy. The Ultimatum Amy handed me the ring, “I can’t marry you.…
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Accountability in Marriage: 6 Things to Know
Accountability plays a critical role in healthy marriages. However, it’s not always…
Accountability plays a critical role in healthy marriages. However, it’s not always clear what that role should be. What is accountability in marriage, and how is it supposed to work? Should husbands and wives be…
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God and Grit Kept Our Marriage Alive: Tonia’s Story
How much of our lives do we spend looking at others and…
How much of our lives do we spend looking at others and thinking about how perfect they look—almost like a Hallmark film? We learn it as little girls. The stories we hear end with “and…
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Fighting the Dragon of Porn: Brandon’s Story
John Eldredge in his book Wild at Heart writes: “In the heart of every…
John Eldredge in his book Wild at Heart writes: “In the heart of every man is a desperate desire for a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue.” I first read these…
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“Help! My Wife Is Addicted to Porn!” What Husbands Need to Know
If you are a husband who just discovered your wife is addicted…
If you are a husband who just discovered your wife is addicted to porn, you are likely dealing with feelings of grief, betrayal, and confusion. Betrayal is one of the most devastating experiences in a…
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Godly Self-Care: Crash the Crash
After the traumatic discovery of your partner’s sex addiction, you are likely…
After the traumatic discovery of your partner’s sex addiction, you are likely to become consumed with your significant other. You suddenly feel very unsafe and feel like you don’t know this person with whom you…
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What to Do if Your Husband Lies About Porn Use
You just caught your husband watching porn. And you felt it. The sinking…
You just caught your husband watching porn. And you felt it. The sinking feeling in your stomach. The stab across your chest when you saw what your husband was looking at. Maybe even the screaming void…