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Boundaries for Couples Facing Porn Addiction
Henry Cloud and John Townsend have written a marvelous book called Boundaries…
Henry Cloud and John Townsend have written a marvelous book called Boundaries in Marriage. They define a boundary simply as “a property line” between one person and another. They make this statement: “When two people…
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Life After Porn: 5 Things My Husband Did to Rebuild Trust
Standing in a dark Las Vegas hotel room with my ear cupped…
Standing in a dark Las Vegas hotel room with my ear cupped to the bathroom door, I heard a voice that I had never heard before. It was the voice of a man “chatting with”…
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Should Married Couples Fast From Sex During Porn-Detox?
A 90 day sexual fast. That’s right, almost three months of abstinence…
A 90 day sexual fast. That’s right, almost three months of abstinence from sex. This is what many porn addiction counselors prescribe for addicts and their spouses during the initial months of recovery. Why is…
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6 Common Questions Asked By Wives of Porn Addicts
The following is an excerpt from our free e-book, Porn and Your…
The following is an excerpt from our free e-book, Porn and Your Husband: A Recovery Guide for Wives. Why does he look at porn? There are a few things you need to understand about your…
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Why Marital Sex Is Better Than Porn
The following is an excerpt from our free e-book, The Porn Circuit:…
The following is an excerpt from our free e-book, The Porn Circuit: Understand Your Brain and Break Porn Habits in 90 Days. The pornified brain sounds a lot like Mick Jagger; it can’t get no…
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What Every Wife of a Sex Addict Has a Right to Know About Her Husband’s Recovery
When sex addicts are in early recovery, their wives (if they have…
When sex addicts are in early recovery, their wives (if they have chosen to stay in the marriage) live in fear. Fear that you will relapse. Fear that you will cheat again. Fear that you…
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The Path to True Intimacy and Better Sex
Every husband who wants to improve his sex life should learn to…
Every husband who wants to improve his sex life should learn to spell. Typically, guys spell intimacy S-E-X, said Dr. Dan Erickson. It’s not entirely our fault. Our sexualized culture has encouraged the misspelling, and…
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4 Ways Porn Kills Great Sex in Marriage
Porn makes promises it can’t keep, especially when it comes to hot…
Porn makes promises it can’t keep, especially when it comes to hot sex in marriage. Porn won’t spice up your sex life, and it won’t make you a better lover. Science and psychology show that…
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7 Tips for Wives of Sex Addicts: Looking for a Good Therapist
It can be harder than you think to find a counselor who…
It can be harder than you think to find a counselor who really gets the trauma you have suffered as a partner of a porn or sexual addict. Learn what to look for, what questions…
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Why spying on your husband is a bad idea (and what to do instead)
“I used to dream that I would meet a prince But God…
“I used to dream that I would meet a prince But God Almighty, have you seen what’s happened since?” -Madame Thenardier, Les Miserables One of the things I dislike about most Disney princesses is that they…