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5 Things I Always Say to Porn-Shocked Wives
I answer a lot of letters from women dealing with the discovery…
I answer a lot of letters from women dealing with the discovery of porn in their marriages. Mostly, they are shocked and hurt and alone, wondering where to go from here. While I answer every…
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For Men Addicted to Porn: 8 Ways to Rebuild Trust with Your Wife
When a woman discovers her husband has been watching porn behind her back,…
When a woman discovers her husband has been watching porn behind her back, it can feel absolutely devastating. It is a traumatic discovery in the truest sense of the word—the wife undergoes terrible trauma. These women…
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Our Culture’s Shattered Dream: The Best of Both Worlds When It Comes to Sex
Food that is delicious, but also healthy. A house that is large,…
Food that is delicious, but also healthy. A house that is large, but inexpensive. Living in Michigan in the summer, but Florida in the winter! It is safe to say that we love the best…
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Yes, You Must Confess Your Porn Problem to Your Wife
It takes courage to admit that you’re addicted to porn. Letting your…
It takes courage to admit that you’re addicted to porn. Letting your secret out to a friend is a crucial ingredient to freedom, but it is not enough. What now? Are going to tell me…
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Couples Watching Porn Together: Better sexual satisfaction?
Many people claim porn can increase a couple’s sexual satisfaction—making us excited about sex with…
Many people claim porn can increase a couple’s sexual satisfaction—making us excited about sex with our partner and giving us fresh ideas in the bedroom. The fact that people watch porn because they find it exciting and pleasurable…
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To the Wife of a Porn Addict: Letting Go of Anger
I have had so many various emotions after discovering my husband was…
I have had so many various emotions after discovering my husband was addicted to pornography three years ago. I had times of sadness and depression that would last for days. I was often confused and…
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Myth: It’s My Fault My Husband Looks At Porn
Women often ask us, “What should I have done differently in my…
Women often ask us, “What should I have done differently in my marriage so my husband wasn’t drawn to pornography? What’s wrong with me that he likes this stuff?” In this video, Matt Fradd explains……
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Intimacy is not spelled S-E-X
Intimacy is not spelled S-E-X—or at least not primarily. The sexual relationship…
Intimacy is not spelled S-E-X—or at least not primarily. The sexual relationship with our wives should be a by-product of the everyday intimacy in our lives. Intimacy given rightly, given freely, and given not for…
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A Letter to Porn-Loving Men: 3 Essential Ways to Help Your Wife Trust You Again
You’re probably thinking, “Is it ever possible to earn her trust again?”…
You’re probably thinking, “Is it ever possible to earn her trust again?” Especially after she said, “How can I ever trust you again?! ” Well, I’ll tell you it is possible. But—and it is a…
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So Does That Make Me an Adulterer?
“But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to…
“But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.” – Matthew 5:28 For over 28 years I’ve heard the question from…