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Managing the Difficult Emotions of Relationship Betrayal
I started to feel it around mid-morning. My body felt hyper-sensitive, the…
I started to feel it around mid-morning. My body felt hyper-sensitive, the sun through the window hurt my skin. When the air came on, the cold air made my legs ache. My heart began to…
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How Broken Trust Regrows: 10 Stage Progression
How does broken trust in a marriage regrow? Growth in trust will…
How does broken trust in a marriage regrow? Growth in trust will require your spouse personally investing in change and your willingness to take relational risks. Your spouse’s growth alone will not create trust without…
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Stop the Abuse of Partners of Sex Addicts
Over the last decade, there have been a handful of professionals in…
Over the last decade, there have been a handful of professionals in the sex addiction treatment community who are trying to change the treatment of partners of sex addicts. This group is growing and has…
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Is Your Relationship Showing Signs of Intimacy Anorexia?
Excitement fills your heart when you prepare to marry the one you love.…
Excitement fills your heart when you prepare to marry the one you love. Maybe you fantasized about the many happy and blissful years to come, or dreamed of the backyard barbecues, annual vacations, or simple cozy…
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3 Reasons Deception Is More Destructive than Porn for Your Wife
“I can’t keep doing this!” she screams with bulging eyes and face…
“I can’t keep doing this!” she screams with bulging eyes and face wrenched in a tormented mix of anger, fear, and pain. “I can’t keep going through this again and again. I feel like I…
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Betrayal Trauma: The Side of Porn Use No One Talks About
My new client had just sat down when I asked how I…
My new client had just sat down when I asked how I could help. She told me, “I recently discovered my husband has been viewing pornography behind my back. I found out he has been…
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How NOT to Tell Your Spouse About Your Porn Addiction
If you’ve been dealing with a porn addiction for any amount of…
If you’ve been dealing with a porn addiction for any amount of time, confessing it to your spouse can be a very difficult and overwhelming thing to do. The anticipation of their pain and their…
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4 Things to Remember About Your Husband’s Porn Problem
When dealing with the porn addiction of a spouse, it’s really easy…
When dealing with the porn addiction of a spouse, it’s really easy to believe lies that make you feel inadequate. Here are the four most important things to remember about your husband’s porn problem. 1.…
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5 Horrible Ways to Tell Your Wife About Your Porn Addiction
If you’re reading this, then you’ve probably wrestled with this question many…
If you’re reading this, then you’ve probably wrestled with this question many times before: “How do I tell my wife?” When you couldn’t come up with a good answer, you waited. She still doesn’t know.…
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3 Ways Pornography Is Devastating Your Wife
Many men don’t realize how damaging pornography is to their wives. Most…
Many men don’t realize how damaging pornography is to their wives. Most will admit their wives don’t approve of it. However, this is often because they believe their wives simply view it as “dirty.” Women’s…