Most Recent Posts in Defeat Lust & Pornography
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The Porn Battle: Creating Your Strategy for Victory
“Know thy self, know thy enemy.” –Sun Tzu, Art of War “Put…
“Know thy self, know thy enemy.” –Sun Tzu, Art of War “Put on the full armor of God, so that you will be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil.” –Eph. 6:11…
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How to Move from Sin-Management to Real Freedom
When it comes to addressing pornography use or other sexual sins in…
When it comes to addressing pornography use or other sexual sins in the church, we often need to work on our message. At best, the church tries to encourage people against these things, and at…
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21 Lies Porn Uses to Keep You in Bondage
Certain people have a tell-tale sign that makes it easy to recognize…
Certain people have a tell-tale sign that makes it easy to recognize when they’re lying: their lips are moving. In other words, some folks lie continuously. If their mouth is open and producing sound, it is…
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Why Nighttime Is Danger Time (And How to Resist Its Pull)
Nighttime for many men and women is danger time. Before I got…
Nighttime for many men and women is danger time. Before I got free of my addiction to pornography, nighttime was a dangerous time for me. Especially after a long day of work, I felt a…
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Are you over-spiritualizing your porn struggle?
Have you ever thought that you may be over-spiritualizing, or possibly under-spiritualizing, your…
Have you ever thought that you may be over-spiritualizing, or possibly under-spiritualizing, your struggle with pornography? The content you read here may include religious language from other denominations. Please don’t let this distract from the overall…
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Women and Masturbation: Talking About It Openly (Part 2)
This is the second half of a two-part series on the topic…
This is the second half of a two-part series on the topic of women and masturbation. If you missed my first post, I highly recommend reading it before you read this one. In the first…
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What Happens When Lust Trains Your Soul
While teaching at a men’s retreat, a standoffish young single challenged me…
While teaching at a men’s retreat, a standoffish young single challenged me with a purity question, “There are so many things in the Bible we don’t observe any longer. I mean, we don’t circumcise, or…
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Women and Masturbation: Talking About It Openly
Lust is not a guy problem–it’s a human problem. If you’re a…
Lust is not a guy problem–it’s a human problem. If you’re a woman who has struggled with any sort of lustful sin habit, including masturbation, you’re not alone. Millions of Christian women (single and married) are…
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Why Your Pastor Can’t Be More Practical than You Are Honest
How often are you truly honest with those around you? Often when…
How often are you truly honest with those around you? Often when we have a prolonged struggle, our tendency is to get upset with those around us. In churches, that frustration often gets directed toward…
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Where to Find the Boldness to Share Your Porn Secret
Four years into my marriage I was buried in guilt and shame…
Four years into my marriage I was buried in guilt and shame due to a porn addiction that no one (including my husband) knew about. The secrecy was killing me inside. Every single day I…