Most Recent Posts in Defeat Lust & Pornography
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How Life Becomes More Fulfilling Without Watching Porn
One of the most severe things porn does to someone is shape…
One of the most severe things porn does to someone is shape their brain to start seeing men and women in real life the way they see men and women in porn.
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Accountability Is Not About Shame and Fear
Ask any counselor, psychologist, or therapist, and they will all agree that…
Ask any counselor, psychologist, or therapist, and they will all agree that accountability is essential to lasting freedom from pornography. But what, after all, is accountability? And why is it so important to recovery and…
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10 Ways to Fight Temptation
James 1:14-15 clearly outlines the process of temptation, “But each one is tempted…
James 1:14-15 clearly outlines the process of temptation, “But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust. Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when…
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The Real Heart Cries Behind “God, Deliver Me from Lust!”
This post has been updated as of May 2021. Over the years,…
This post has been updated as of May 2021. Over the years, I must have asked God over a thousand times to set me free from lust and pornographic addiction. To no avail. I just…
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Back to the Basics: 5 Steps to Overcome Porn
Most people struggle to find effective methods for overcoming porn in their…
Most people struggle to find effective methods for overcoming porn in their lives. These five steps have proven to be highly effective when implemented as designed. The greatest variable in this process is you. The process…
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Pleasure, Longings, and an Unsatisfied Heart
There were early indications that I had unrealistic expectations and was prone…
There were early indications that I had unrealistic expectations and was prone to disappointment and depression when things didn’t go according to plan. An early story took place at a railroad crossing. I don’t have…
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How to Tell Your Parents You’re Struggling with Porn
So, you’ve reached the necessary place of maturity or desperation (or both)…
So, you’ve reached the necessary place of maturity or desperation (or both) to recognize your need for your parents’ partnership in your fight for freedom from pornography. I hate that you find yourself in this…
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Before You Tell Your Parents about Your Porn Struggle
So you’re ready to let the cat out of the bag and…
So you’re ready to let the cat out of the bag and confess your struggle with pornography? Here are a few approaches: Political Strategy: “Ahhhh… I might have a problem with some things I’ve sort…
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To the Teen Alone and Ashamed of Your Porn Use
Shame Has No Age Limit Shame affects kids, teens, and adults. I’ll…
Shame Has No Age Limit Shame affects kids, teens, and adults. I’ll never forget receiving a phone call from a distraught mother who found my website, and called to share the story of her 9-year-old…
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The Secret Sauce of Recovery
When I was a young boy, we did it every Saturday afternoon.…
When I was a young boy, we did it every Saturday afternoon. My brother and I piled into the back of the neighbor’s pickup truck with his two sons, and off we went. Driving down…