Most Recent Posts in Defeat Lust & Pornography
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True Story: Calum’s Journey to Freedom from Porn
My name is Calum, and this is my story of overcoming pornography…
My name is Calum, and this is my story of overcoming pornography and lust. A little less than nine years ago I was working on a slideshow for a project in choir. Innocently scrolling to…
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How God Gave Me a Future After Porn
I’m a free man! The joy of saying those words far surpasses…
I’m a free man! The joy of saying those words far surpasses any momentary pleasure that porn can give. The chains that once bound me have been shattered into pieces. The joy that I have…
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Can you really be free from porn?
Each year, I find myself reflecting on a question I get asked…
Each year, I find myself reflecting on a question I get asked often as a former sex addict and now sex addiction recovery mentor: “Can you really be free from porn?” It’s a valid question.…
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Behind Every Woman’s Body Is a Woman
When you look at pornography, what you end up seeing is a…
When you look at pornography, what you end up seeing is a long line of naked bodies. When you look at pornography for years, you end up seeing years and years’ worth of long lines…
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How to Deal with Secret Sexual Struggles
My heart was pounding. My hands were sweaty. I knew I needed…
My heart was pounding. My hands were sweaty. I knew I needed to be honest about my struggle but it was the last thing in the world I wanted to talk about. Especially to my…
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The Biggest Misconception About Quitting Porn
After getting 13 years and 8 months into my recovery, and after…
After getting 13 years and 8 months into my recovery, and after helping thousands of people deal with porn, I have one specific answer to this issue. The biggest misconception about quitting porn is thinking…
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The Attachment Cycle and the Power to Overcome Porn
We talk a lot about the importance of accountability in overcoming pornography.…
We talk a lot about the importance of accountability in overcoming pornography. We’re an accountability company, so it’s really no surprise. But have you ever wondered why accountability is so effective? Before we can understand…
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5 Reasons a Porn Blocker Isn’t Enough to Help You Quit Porn
The first thing most people struggling with porn try to help them…
The first thing most people struggling with porn try to help them quit? A porn blocker. They think if they can keep themselves from getting to porn, or keep it from coming to them, they’ll…
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Unleash Your Inner Hero
What is it about superheroes that we love so much? Is it…
What is it about superheroes that we love so much? Is it the colorful costumes, or maybe their cool names? Is it all the cool gadgets that we can only wish were real? Maybe, but…
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Your First Seven Days of Porn Recovery
While traveling recently, I attended a 12-step group. I enjoyed the meeting…
While traveling recently, I attended a 12-step group. I enjoyed the meeting greatly, but was saddened by the lack of long-term sobriety in the room. Over half the guys admitted to acting out that week.…