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8 Myths That Will Roadblock Your Path to Recovery
“I think you may have an addiction. You need to be in…
“I think you may have an addiction. You need to be in recovery.” As soon as I heard those words, I fired my therapist. Me – an addict? Me – in need of recovery? I…
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When Did Porn Become Such a Big Problem?
Sometime around the mid 2000s, Internet speeds went from barely being able…
Sometime around the mid 2000s, Internet speeds went from barely being able to upload high definition photos to capable of streaming movies without a single hiccup. We moved from dial-up to DSL, to Broadband to…
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Why Covenant Eyes Works
If you (or a friend) have ever struggled with porn, you know…
If you (or a friend) have ever struggled with porn, you know it can seem impossible to quit. No matter how strong the resolve, porn can seem like one villain that just can’t be beat.…
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10 Significant Reasons to Stay Sexually Sober
“Tom” came to me for help, and he seemed sincere. “I’ll do…
“Tom” came to me for help, and he seemed sincere. “I’ll do whatever it takes to get sober,” he promised. So he entered my 90-day program. Tom did well until he realized that recovery is…
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The Lies of Lust: Fantasies That Won’t Satisfy
The Lust Trap is a web of lies. Lies that we believe.…
The Lust Trap is a web of lies. Lies that we believe. Lies that make promises that never deliver. This three part series tackles three of these lies head on and provides each truth needed…
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Generation Porn: Single and Too Addicted to Mingle
I had the “perfect” Christian upbringing. My dad was a pastor, and…
I had the “perfect” Christian upbringing. My dad was a pastor, and our family’s faith was strongly integrated into every aspect of our life from day one. I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior…
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Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder Is Now Officially Recognized
Sexual addiction is becoming an official mental health diagnosis. The World Health…
Sexual addiction is becoming an official mental health diagnosis. The World Health Organization (WHO) met in May of this year and adopted the new ICD-11, which includes the diagnosis of Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder (CSBD). Covenant…
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How a Custom Block List Can Boost Your Porn Recovery
A porn blocker can play an extremely important role in your journey…
A porn blocker can play an extremely important role in your journey to overcome porn, especially if you use it with accountability. Few people overcome porn using only a porn blocker. Screen Accountability allows you…
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The Lies of Lust: Promises That Never Deliver
The “Lust Trap” can reel you in anytime, anywhere. Its strong pull…
The “Lust Trap” can reel you in anytime, anywhere. Its strong pull brings you in like a sci-fi tractor beam. The graphic imagery of Proverbs 7 describes it like an ox going to slaughter, a…
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Do You Have the Emotional Intelligence to Quit Porn?
“Yeah, I would say Kevin is making good progress with his pornography…
“Yeah, I would say Kevin is making good progress with his pornography addiction,” Carol told me during a couple’s session when I asked if she thought her husband was on the right path of recovery.…