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9 Holiday Triggers for Porn Use (and How to Avoid Them)
Quitting porn is no easy thing to do. It requires intentional new…
Quitting porn is no easy thing to do. It requires intentional new habits and rewired thinking. And without some proactive planning, few things have the power to slow down healthy new habits like the holidays.…
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Accountability Is for the Weak
Accountability is for the weak. What does this phrase stir up in…
Accountability is for the weak. What does this phrase stir up in you? Do you agree or disagree? Are you weak or are you strong? Most of us, especially us guys, like to think of…
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Lamar Odom and His Journey to Overcome Porn
In the summer of 2019, two-time NBA champion, Olympic medalist, and reality…
In the summer of 2019, two-time NBA champion, Olympic medalist, and reality TV star Lamar Odom announced he was giving up porn. His new girlfriend, Sabrina Parr, told him he had to remove it from…
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The Lies of Lust: Stolen Humanity
The Lust Trap is a web of lies. Lies that we believe.…
The Lust Trap is a web of lies. Lies that we believe. Lies that make promises that never deliver. This three-part series tackles three of these lies head on and provides each truth needed to…
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When Did Porn Become Such a Big Problem?
Sometime around the mid 2000s, Internet speeds went from barely being able…
Sometime around the mid 2000s, Internet speeds went from barely being able to upload high definition photos to capable of streaming movies without a single hiccup. We moved from dial-up to DSL, to Broadband to…
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The Lies of Lust: Fantasies That Won’t Satisfy
The Lust Trap is a web of lies. Lies that we believe.…
The Lust Trap is a web of lies. Lies that we believe. Lies that make promises that never deliver. This three part series tackles three of these lies head on and provides each truth needed…
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Generation Porn: Single and Too Addicted to Mingle
I had the “perfect” Christian upbringing. My dad was a pastor, and…
I had the “perfect” Christian upbringing. My dad was a pastor, and our family’s faith was strongly integrated into every aspect of our life from day one. I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior…
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How a Custom Block List Can Boost Your Porn Recovery
A porn blocker can play an extremely important role in your journey…
A porn blocker can play an extremely important role in your journey to overcome porn, especially if you use it with accountability. Few people overcome porn using only a porn blocker. Screen Accountability allows you…
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The Lies of Lust: Promises That Never Deliver
The “Lust Trap” can reel you in anytime, anywhere. Its strong pull…
The “Lust Trap” can reel you in anytime, anywhere. Its strong pull brings you in like a sci-fi tractor beam. The graphic imagery of Proverbs 7 describes it like an ox going to slaughter, a…
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Do You Have the Emotional Intelligence to Quit Porn?
“Yeah, I would say Kevin is making good progress with his pornography…
“Yeah, I would say Kevin is making good progress with his pornography addiction,” Carol told me during a couple’s session when I asked if she thought her husband was on the right path of recovery.…