A bit ago we looked at reasons why resolutions often fail and how to succeed instead; you can revisit that material here. Today we’re going to do a deeper dive into the second point from that material: the rewards of purity. Focus on the rewards According to Peter Kinderman, Professor of Clinical Psychology…
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What’s Wrong with a Little Porn When You’re Single? – Book Review
This week we are reviewing What’s Wrong with a Little Porn When You’re Single?, published by Harvest USA. . . . . We write a lot about how porn damages marriages…and for good reason. Often, a major catalyst for a person’s desire to change is the recognition that their porn use…
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What Did Christians Say About Accountability in Ancient Times?
I take new ideas with a grain of salt—especially when it comes to my faith and Christian living. So when I read about “accountability,” “accountability partners,” and “accountability groups,” my first instinct is to suspect it’s a fad that will soon go out of style. To my surprise, I’ve found…
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10 Indisputable Rules to Guide Your Recovery From Porn
Thousands of books have been written on the subject of addiction and recovery. In just a few minutes on your smart device, you can find dozens of resources: therapists, seminars, 12-step groups, and conferences. In my quest to learn all I can about recovery, I have earned a Master’s Degree…
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The Best Porn Blocker for 2026
The Best Porn Blocker for 2026 A porn blocker can be a great solution to keep unwanted content off your devices. But porn blockers shouldn’t be the only tools you use. Here’s why Victory by Covenant Eyes® pairs porn blocking with accountability to help people live porn-free. Page at a Glance Finding…
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Day 21: The Path to True Intimacy and Better Sex
Every husband who wants to improve his sex life should learn to spell. Typically, guys spell intimacy S-E-X, says Dr. Dan Erickson. It’s not entirely our fault. Our sexualized culture has encouraged the misspelling, and it has distorted the definition too. Intimacy in our culture often describes a “what,” Erickson…
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How to React the First Time Your Child Admits to Watching Porn
My child stands shivering before my wife and I and says, “I didn’t tell you before, because I was too afraid, but I looked at pornography a month ago, sort of for a few days in a row.” What am I supposed to say? I had no warning at all.…
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To the Wife of a Porn Addict: Letting Go of Anger
I have had so many various emotions after discovering my husband was addicted to pornography three years ago. But, the emotion that I feared the most—because it had total control of me, was anger. I think almost every wife is angry when she finds out that her husband is hiding…
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Samson and the Pirate Monks (Book Review)
Samson and the Pirate Monks is a story about a fellowship of men—men who are helping one another to take off their pious masks and bear their souls to each other. The subtitle really captures the purpose of the book: “Calling Men to Authentic Brotherhood.” The cover of the book,…
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3 Reasons Accountability Is Better than Internet Filtering
Not too long ago, I spoke with a friend of mine who recently started using Covenant Eyes to protect his teenage sons, one of whom had been struggling with pornography. “It’s going well,” he said. “I’ve got it set up so that we’re receiving each other’s reports. I’ll tell you,…


