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His Porn Will Change You: Should I Hold Him Accountable?
Being the spouse of a reformed (or struggling) porn addict is more…
Being the spouse of a reformed (or struggling) porn addict is more complex emotionally than many of us realize at first. Even when your husband is trying to pursue purity and both of you are…
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How to Fight Lust With Love
When dealing with porn we need to look at the big picture…
When dealing with porn we need to look at the big picture and the little picture. We need to fight the small battles in order to win the war. Over the years I’ve become convinced…
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Delight Your Marriage: Interview with Belah Rose
Episode 151 [powerpress] Pornography is terrible sexual education, causing both deep insecurities…
Episode 151 [powerpress] Pornography is terrible sexual education, causing both deep insecurities and impossible expectations. When couples find they just don’t “click” in the bedroom—often caused by these hidden insecurities and expectations—where can they go…
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So Does That Make Me an Adulterer?
“But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to…
“But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.” – Matthew 5:28 For over 28 years I’ve heard the question from…
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How Many Christians View Porn? A Lot, Actually
Today, one can easily say that porn has become the norm—even among…
Today, one can easily say that porn has become the norm—even among churchgoers. A recent survey found among Christian men… 64% admit that they view pornography at least monthly. 77% of Millennial men (18-30 years old) view…
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The Peak Time for Porn: A Covenant Eyes Report
A recent research project by Covenant Eyes has proven what you might…
A recent research project by Covenant Eyes has proven what you might suspect: viewing of porn goes way up in the wee hours of the morning. Specifically, for Covenant Eyes users, Highly Mature (HM) sites goes…
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5 Accountability Questions I Wish My Ally Would Ask Me
I don’t like the word “accountability partner” any more than I like…
I don’t like the word “accountability partner” any more than I like the word “diet,” and I dislike them both for the same reason. They sound like an exception and a punishment rather than a…
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Surviving the Worst Day of Your Life: Confessing Porn Use to Your Spouse
September 9, 2005 was the worst day of my life. Confronted by…
September 9, 2005 was the worst day of my life. Confronted by my church board leaders, I had to admit my addiction to porn and headed home to tell my wife and four children. I…
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Hearts of Men: The Key to Rescuing Men from Porn Addiction
Episode 150 Jason Pamer is the producer and co-writer of the award-winning documentary…
Episode 150 Jason Pamer is the producer and co-writer of the award-winning documentary on sex trafficking, Rape For Profit, recently landing in the top 50 films on iTunes. Jason studied acting under an Emmy award-winning director at…
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5 Lies Culture Tells Christian Singles
When you’re single, it often feels like the world is against you.…
When you’re single, it often feels like the world is against you. Nearly every pop song, TV show, and movie out there tells some pernicious lies about what you should be doing with your body…