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Why Marrying a Supermodel Won’t Satisfy
I remember the way I thought about marriage back when I was…
I remember the way I thought about marriage back when I was a single chap. I had determined that if I was ever going to get married (i.e. tied down to just one woman for…
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What’s significant about 40 days?
Everything that’s worth having requires immense effort. I’ve found this to be…
Everything that’s worth having requires immense effort. I’ve found this to be abundantly true in two specific areas of my life right now–marriage and parenthood. If I want to have a healthy marriage, it requires…
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Dear Porn Addict, This Is Your Wife
Husbands addicted to porn are often totally ignorant to the relational carnage…
Husbands addicted to porn are often totally ignorant to the relational carnage it unleashes on their wife and loved ones once their addiction is exposed. Being caught as a porn addict is like dropping a…
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Porn Is a Perfect Teacher (Teaching a Deadly Lie)
Sex is God’s idea. Sex is not only a good thing, but…
Sex is God’s idea. Sex is not only a good thing, but an act deliberately willed by God in order to help unify man and woman. Our brain’s wiring reinforces this bonding by unleashing a…
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For Parents Only: Sex Addiction Therapist Reveals Her Biggest Shock
Kindergarten. That’s where Cheryl’s son was first exposed to pornography. How could…
Kindergarten. That’s where Cheryl’s son was first exposed to pornography. How could this happen? Cheryl [not her real name] had taken every precaution to prevent this. As a certified sex addiction therapist, she had a…
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From Your Future Wife: Please, please don’t do this one thing…
Reflecting back on our marriage I can clearly see the “one thing”…
Reflecting back on our marriage I can clearly see the “one thing” I had done that lead to a lot of pain, broken trust, and wounded love. This “one thing” did enormous harm to our…
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3 Reasons the Devil Didn’t Make You Do It
“Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors.” –Rom. 8:37 “The…
“Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors.” –Rom. 8:37 “The Devil made me do it!” We’ve all heard it, but why do I do what I do? Isn’t that the question of all…
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Why Disney Relationships Are Just Like Porn
I’m the dad of 3- and 4-year-old daughters. I’m an expert on…
I’m the dad of 3- and 4-year-old daughters. I’m an expert on Disney princesses. My daughters have every word of the Frozen soundtrack memorized and have more Disney princess toys and articles of clothing than…
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Why We Will Be Using Covenant Eyes for Life
We were crunching numbers, trying to make room in the budget for…
We were crunching numbers, trying to make room in the budget for something I can’t quite recall, when I asked my husband if we still needed to pay for Covenant Eyes. We were years down…
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How to Approach Sex After Betrayal
Recently, Jake* contacted me via e-mail. He’d listened to almost every interview…
Recently, Jake* contacted me via e-mail. He’d listened to almost every interview we had done and agreed with almost everything we had said, except for this: Porn is not about sex, but about fantasy. After…