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God Turns Our Darkness Into Light, Even During a Pandemic.
Note from the author: When I first wrote this post, I was…
Note from the author: When I first wrote this post, I was not thinking about Covenant Eyes. I was simply journaling my feelings. My paralyzed feeling wasn’t about my husband’s addiction, but my frustration and…
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Babies, Germs, and the Importance of Porn Proofing Your Home
Life entered a brand new ballgame when my 8-month-old started to crawl.…
Life entered a brand new ballgame when my 8-month-old started to crawl. All of a sudden, he went from being a completely stationary and content baby, to a tiny monster who could move anywhere and…
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Survey Shows That Women Feel Isolated in Their Struggle With Porn
One of the problems of working in the field of porn addiction…
One of the problems of working in the field of porn addiction and recovery is that many of us tend to assume certain things about porn users. We tend to stereotype them as men married…
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3 Reasons Why I Will Never Allow My Children on TikTok
When I opened the TikTok app for the first time, it took…
When I opened the TikTok app for the first time, it took me less than a minute to find explicit content. I wanted to do some research into the claims that this extremely popular platform…
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50 Things to Do Instead of Watching Porn
So you’re bored. Porn seems like a good way to fill time,…
So you’re bored. Porn seems like a good way to fill time, right? Wrong. When you find yourself with nothing to do, it’s easy to turn to porn. Unfortunately, this only leads to false satisfaction…
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For Allies: How to Respond When Your Friend Looks at Porn
Brian hopped on his laptop to see if any grad schools had…
Brian hopped on his laptop to see if any grad schools had gotten back to him yet. He knew he had just sent out his transcripts an hour before, and he knew that clicking the…
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Why Punishing Kids for Porn Use Almost Always Backfires
Using punishment to deter our kids from accessing porn may seem like…
Using punishment to deter our kids from accessing porn may seem like a good idea. This is especially true when they continue to find ways to access porn, even after numerous conversations about why pornography…
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15 Coping Strategies to Help You Stay Porn-Free
So, you’ve made the courageous commitment to stop looking at porn. Congratulations!…
So, you’ve made the courageous commitment to stop looking at porn. Congratulations! A very commendable and healthy life change. Then, reality hits. You find that just because you made a commitment, success is not guaranteed.…
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The Ultimate Guide to Identifying (and Redirecting) Your Porn Triggers
The great military strategist Sun Tzu once said, “If you know the…
The great military strategist Sun Tzu once said, “If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles.” In the battle against porn, knowing your triggers and…
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5 Ways to Help Your Family De-Stress So They Can Make Better Choices Online
How does your family handle stress? And how does this stress affect…
How does your family handle stress? And how does this stress affect your decisions online? Everyone can admit that there has been a lot of upheaval in recent years. This upheaval can significantly upset the…