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Don’t Ignore Your Marriage After Sexual Addiction is Discovered
Over the past month I have given a few presentations at conferences…
Over the past month I have given a few presentations at conferences for other therapists on the topic of Sex Addiction in marriage. It is such a neglected topic and has gotten me thinking. When…
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Why Internet Accountability is Like Insurance
Accidents happen even at the best of times. I was already backing…
Accidents happen even at the best of times. I was already backing out of a parking spot in my new car when the car parked behind me went into reverse. And then came the sickening…
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How Does It Feel to Be a Woman Addicted to Porn?
While each woman’s experience is unique, there are general themes for the…
While each woman’s experience is unique, there are general themes for the woman addicted to porn and/or sex: shame and guilt, conflicting messages from church and culture, feelings of worthlessness, and a profound sense of…
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Advice for Porn-Addict Recovery Groups: Avoid Struggle-Based Identity
If you have ever had a demonstrative struggle with pornography, at some…
If you have ever had a demonstrative struggle with pornography, at some point or another, you might be encouraged to join a group for men or women focused on helping one another with sexual issues.…
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Mentoring Millennials With Timeless Truths
How do we help mentor the next generation of Christians as they…
How do we help mentor the next generation of Christians as they move into the workplace and start on their life journey? Have expectations changed over the past few decades? How has new technology transformed…
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5 Tips for Online Dating for Single Christians
There are pros and cons to online dating. Pro: There are great people…
There are pros and cons to online dating. Pro: There are great people online (I have found them, know them, and am one of them). Pro: For someone immersed in a career or ministry, online dating…
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3 Reasons Age-Based Internet Filters are Superior
1. Your Internet filter can grow with your kids. The Covenant…
1. Your Internet filter can grow with your kids. The Covenant Eyes Filter has six age-based ratings, ranging from R for Restricted to M for Mature. As your child grows through the significant stages…
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5 Surefire Ways to Motivate Your Child to Use Pornography
Before I get into five surefire ways to motivate your child to…
Before I get into five surefire ways to motivate your child to use pornography, let me establish two important points. The first is no parent wants their child to become involved in pornography. We all…
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Beyond Ordinary: When a Good Marriage Just Isn’t Good Enough (Review)
Marriages don’t have to be ordinary. God can help couples find oneness…
Marriages don’t have to be ordinary. God can help couples find oneness and intimacy, or recapture it. The authors share from their marriage godly beginnings, deterioration, building resentment, the consequences of an extramarital affair, restoration,…
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My Husband Watches Porn: Handling a Spouse’s Porn Addiction
If your husband watches porn, you’re not alone. Statistics show that MANY…
If your husband watches porn, you’re not alone. Statistics show that MANY husbands are regularly watching pornography. Up to two-thirds of men, including married men, consume porn habitually.1 Read these comments on our blog: “I…