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2 Big Ways Porn Affects Those Who Watch It
Dr. William Struthers, a neuroscientist, talks about the observations he’s made about…
Dr. William Struthers, a neuroscientist, talks about the observations he’s made about the impact of porn on those who watch it. How does porn affect people? 1. For some, watching porn leads to a seeming…
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What is Porn Addiction? – Brain Scientist Tackles a Tough Question
In this interview, Dr. William Struthers talks about what exactly porn addiction…
In this interview, Dr. William Struthers talks about what exactly porn addiction is. 1. You can be a non-addict and still be an unhealthy user. As with any kind of substance or activity—whether it be…
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7 Tips for Wives of Sex Addicts: Looking for a Good Therapist
Avoiding Treatment-Induced Trauma and Finding the Help You Really Need It can…
Avoiding Treatment-Induced Trauma and Finding the Help You Really Need It can be harder than you think to find a counselor who really gets the trauma you have suffered as a partner of a porn…
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5 Lame Excuses for Putting Up with Your Husband’s Porn
Cartoon by Jerry King 1. What’s the big deal? All men look…
Cartoon by Jerry King 1. What’s the big deal? All men look at porn. It is perfectly normal. Yes, most men look at porn. In this sense your husband is normal. But the real question…
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Why spying on your husband is a bad idea (and what to do instead)
“I used to dream that I would meet a prince But God…
“I used to dream that I would meet a prince But God Almighty, have you seen what’s happened since?” -Madame Thenardier, Les Miserables One of the things I dislike about most Disney princesses is that they…
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How to Take Every Thought Captive: The Battle for Your Mind
Have you ever had someone accuse you of something that was not…
Have you ever had someone accuse you of something that was not true? Have you ever accused yourself of something that was not true? Either way, whether from you or another, any false argument launched against…
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Fighting Lust: The Myth of Gray Areas Online
It’s easy for us to draw big bold lines around things we…
It’s easy for us to draw big bold lines around things we know are wrong. We know pornography is wrong, but we have a hard time drawing the line at what “technically” is pornography. It’s…
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Accountability Questions: Discussion Guide For Accountability Partners
I’ve never been a huge fan of lists of accountability questions. In…
I’ve never been a huge fan of lists of accountability questions. In the past, much of my distain for them was that I liked my sin too much. Lists of accountability questions tended to expose…
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Talking to My Son About Masturbation
Christian Counselor Brad Hambrick talks to parents about the thorny subject of…
Christian Counselor Brad Hambrick talks to parents about the thorny subject of masturbation. Many moms and dads are asking, “Should I be talking to my son about masturbation? How should I do this?”
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Is Confidentiality Christian? Should you keep a friend’s sin secret?
Luke Gilkerson, blog manager at Covenant Eyes, often receives questions about the…
Luke Gilkerson, blog manager at Covenant Eyes, often receives questions about the issue of confidentiality. Here are a few examples he shared with me: 1. When I’m an accountability partner for someone else, what is…