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Sex Can’t Fix You
Why thousands of porn-crazed Christian men will have miserable marriages Life coach…
Why thousands of porn-crazed Christian men will have miserable marriages Life coach Tony Litster has some wise things to say in a brief clip from the documentary-in-the-making, Shamed. In the context of the church, true…
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Fighting Lust with a Scalpel and a Sword
When it comes to fighting lust, I believe there are two instruments…
When it comes to fighting lust, I believe there are two instruments needed: a scalpel and a sword. Scalpels are precise instruments used to cut beneath the surface to expose the underlying problem. In my…
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5 Ways Pornography Affects Teens’ Brains
In this modern world where everything is accessible, a teenager can easily…
In this modern world where everything is accessible, a teenager can easily watch anything he or she wants, including pornography. Pornography does many things to teenagers, changing their perspective and way of thinking, especially when…
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33 Reasons to Abstain from Porn
Knowing that porn is wrong is not the struggle for me. Staying…
Knowing that porn is wrong is not the struggle for me. Staying motivated to abstain from it…now there’s the real struggle! To give myself a fresh shot of motivation, every single morning I remind myself…
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The Lamest Excuse for Not Using Internet Accountability
“Yeah, I don’t need Internet Accountability. That’s for people who have a…
“Yeah, I don’t need Internet Accountability. That’s for people who have a problem.” If I had a dollar every time I heard a version of this excuse given by guys not to use an online…
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Accountability is not a last resort. It’s a lifestyle.
When I visit churches or interact online with Christians to talk about…
When I visit churches or interact online with Christians to talk about the idea of accountability, I often detect an undertow of shame. Often Christians pursue accountability in order to put to death some nasty…
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Ashamed No More: A Pastor’s Journey Through Sex Addiction (Review)
A pastor and sex addiction. Sounds reprehensible doesn’t it? But author Tom…
A pastor and sex addiction. Sounds reprehensible doesn’t it? But author Tom Ryan is a real person, with a real background of family challenges. He was raised in a mainline Presbyterian church and brought to…
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3 Obstacles to Grace-Filled Community
In his interview for the documentary, Shamed, Daniel Weiss said something that…
In his interview for the documentary, Shamed, Daniel Weiss said something that has stuck with me: “The final obstacle to Christian community is the inability to be sinners together.” It is so true, and at…
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Why Porn Hurts Marriages (and why marital sex is so much hotter than porn)
Porn argues that variety is the spice of life, but studies show…
Porn argues that variety is the spice of life, but studies show that long-term sexual intimacy with a spouse is much more satisfying. Porn tries to convince people that more porn and more partners brings…
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The pureJUSTICE Journey: A Sex Trafficking Bible Study
by Noel Bouché “Righteousness and justice are the foundation of your throne; love…
by Noel Bouché “Righteousness and justice are the foundation of your throne; love and faithfulness go before you.” – Psalm 89:14 Coming out of law school I thought I had all the tools I would need…