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Marriage After Porn: Milestones of Healing
There was a day in my marriage now known as The Confession—that moment…
There was a day in my marriage now known as The Confession—that moment when the reality of my pornography addiction came to light. For about six months, one day to the next there was plenty of fluctuation…
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Overcoming Porn: 4 Tips for Effective Accountability
Your chances of overcoming your struggle with pornography without a good accountability…
Your chances of overcoming your struggle with pornography without a good accountability plan will look a lot like Custer’s Last Stand in the end. It will be deadly and messy, with casualties everywhere. Yes, a…
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The Wakeup Call: How I Broke the Chains of Porn Addiction
Like so many other men who have issues with pornography, I started…
Like so many other men who have issues with pornography, I started to become addicted to porn at the age of 12. Now I am 52 years old with three years of sobriety since God…
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Is Porn a Reason for Divorce?
This is a hot-button issue we’ve addressed before, and we continue to…
This is a hot-button issue we’ve addressed before, and we continue to get questions about it. Obviously, opinions about divorce are manifold across the Christian spectrum. While recognizing that civil divorces do occur, Roman Catholics…
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4 Ways to Address Sexy Images on Facebook
If you’re anything like me or 48% of other Facebook users, one…
If you’re anything like me or 48% of other Facebook users, one of the first things you do when you wake up is check your news feed. Or maybe you’re one of the 28% who…
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Porn & the Demand for Sex Trafficking (10 Eye-Opening Stats)
“The johns watch porn, seeing violent and aberrant behaviors on film, then…
“The johns watch porn, seeing violent and aberrant behaviors on film, then they crave the realization of what they have seen. Those obsessions drive them to the prostituted women and girls to get what they…
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5 Things You Should Not Assume About Your Husband’s Porn Addiction
1. Don’t assume he’s got it under control. If he had it…
1. Don’t assume he’s got it under control. If he had it under control, he wouldn’t be breaking your heart with his confessions right now. One of the worst things you can do for your…
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Internet Accountability for the Entire Family
Growing up I didn’t have Internet or a computer in my home…
Growing up I didn’t have Internet or a computer in my home until I was a junior or senior in high school. Back then, chat rooms were the hot topic when it came to children…
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Porn Culture vs. The Gospel: Two Irreconcilable Messages
The gospel says: “This is my body, which is given for you”…
The gospel says: “This is my body, which is given for you” (Luke 22:19). Porn culture says: “This is your body taken by me.” The gospel says: Treat “older women as mothers, younger women as…
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The Day He Let an Intruder Into His Home
This post has been updated as of January 2021. It’s a dark,…
This post has been updated as of January 2021. It’s a dark, moonless night. You’ve been asleep for hours. A strange sound jars you awake and you rub your eyes, listening for the sound again,…